Hi Joe; Welcome to Permies! And Welcome to the wonderful world of Rocket Science!
Wow, 105 year old three story farm house. Northern Wisconsin Yikes! That might need several heat sources.
What kind of chimney does your house have? What size and in what condition?
As big a proponent of
RMH's as I am.
I think that in your case maybe an
RMH in the living area or kitchen to cozy the place up, with another large heat supply as well.
The largest obstacle I see is chimneys. There can only be one stove on a chimney.
Each bedroom would ideally have its own chimney and its own Small Batch RMH.
As that is not realistic. Then maybe your outdoor burner and a Walker riserless RMH cook stove for the wife.
Matts stoves come in two sizes and are fully capable of having an attached bell (bench).
They can be used just for cooking during warmer seasons or be a full mass heater capable of being run for hours at a time.
Matt sells full DYI plans for these stoves, complete with consultations during your build.
Here is a link to his site, so you can check out his stoves.
https://walkerstoves.com/index.html