I think vermifilter flush toilet systems are nearly ideal.
They produce very little black
water, but still some.
I don't want to use a contained bog/wetland to deal with it because of weather.
Unless the plants are grown in under cover, rain is liable to over flow the bog and spread unremediated water .
Unless the bog is indoors,cold weather would kill the plants or stop the evapotranspiration we are counting on.
Instead of an indoor bog, I thought a
solar still might work.
Just a simple insulated box with a glazed lid that would evaporate the water and heat up the residue.
Alternatively or in addition to the
solar thermal evaporation, a solar pv powered fan and/or solar chimney could speed create air movement to accelerate evaporation.
Another choice could be aeration of the black water, as is done in some newer septic systems.
They all seem to use air stones and follow up with chlorine.
That doesn't sound good, but another less noxious chemical might be ok.
Road salt or borox added to the evaporator could mix with and disinfect the incoming water, but remain in place as the evaporation takes place.
Adding dark particles to the black water could aid in evaporation by absorbing radiant solar thermal and conducting the heat directly to the water it is suspended in.
I originally thought to immediately vent the evaporated water, but solar stills are designed to collect the water.
I'm not sure which is more useful.
Storing the purified water directly under but physically separated from the incoming water would allow it to act as a thermal flywheel and preheat the black water as it cools off.