It's those sneak attacks that make one so very angry at these birds...most of the people that suffer them are distracted by doing something else and usually squatted or bent down and busy with their hands. To us humans, that is like an assault! A thug attacking an innocent bystander and more the so when it's a woman or a child. I get that and had an uncle who kept a billy goat with those techniques and another uncle that had "that mean rooster" for whom we were to "watch out".
All it boils down to is us humans expecting animals to have a moral code and they do not~we treat them politely and we assume that it will be returned. Roosters, and most male animals, are purely instinctual creatures that act and react on instinct and learned behaviors within their social structure. If you will observe flocks where you have several roosters, you will see the same thing....the casual walk by, as if they have no intention ever of attacking the other rooster....you can almost hear the bird whistling as he goes~then WHAM! TAKE THAT, YOU INTERLOPER INTO WHAT I PERCEIVE AS MY FLOCK! It's all an education while you watch it and, until it also happens to you, you never really put it together.
You will find that those roosters who are the most vigorous breeders are also those who have more of that instinct to guard their hens...this is a good thing, not a bad thing. That level of rooster will also challenge a cat, hawk, dog, etc. when it approaches the flock. *****K. Bennett, it actually sounds as if you have a really good rooster..would hate for you to learn that the hard way and unknowingly eliminate one of the biggest helpers with your poultry
experience. *****
When you go to catch a hen and have her pinned down, squawking and wings flapping, you will often see other hens run over and peck her or the rooster will run over to challenge you. It's all in their social structure and list of instinctual behaviors. Those who keep chickens, adults and children alike, can watch these chickens when they are solely interacting with one another (without our putting out food or trying to interact with them) and you can learn so much.
Once you learn it, you can put those behaviors into your own arsenal and interact with them in a language in which they understand. Roosters~remember, there are always exceptions to the rule~as a rule, will react the same way they would with other roosters or strange birds introduced into the flock until we show them we are superior to them~as an animal~and they will never be able to challenge us and win.
My current rooster has never needed to be reinforced with that idea because he observed the training of another~not raised by my hand~rooster that challenged the flock leader~ME. Roosters can learn and those that simply keep challenging the flock leader are those that deserve the soup pot. I've never had a rooster that ever challenged more than one time and, after the 5-10 min. schooling, learned the lesson from there on out. They don't forget it if it is done in their language~which is to say, in behaviors they understand.
Someone who reacts with a knee
jerk kicking of the rooster when he flogs has not reacted in his sphere of understandable behaviors that would tell him to never repeat his attack. One has merely rebuffed an attack, which is something a rooster of equal status in the flock will do. It's a defensive maneuver and not an offensive move that one would get from a true top rooster....they do know the difference.
When you don't have those opportunities of learning from your elders with livestock, which is a dying prospect and has been replaced with the blind leading the blind kind of tutelage(forums and suburbanite fowlers), it is best just to learn hands on and the hard way...but I urge one to learn it from the animal's perspective and not our own. Roosters don't think it's "mean" to flog or surprise one another with an attack. Mean is not in their vocabulary. Once you understand that they are not humans and have their own set of behaviors that equal language, it gets much easier.
K. Bennett, I urge you to try an experiment with your existing rooster. Send him to school and see what he learns. Could be that you will learn something too and your family will learn it from you and theirs from them. Start a chain of learning instead of ditching this perfectly normal bird. He isn't mean, he is merely a rooster. The disconnect is not with him, it is with you. Until you fix you, you can't interact with him in a language he will understand. You will find that the next rooster you get will be the same one you have...a normal rooster. All your rooster needs is a human that understands rooster and that won't happen if you kill the one that can teach you the language and then go get another bird that speaks that same foreign tongue as the one you killed.