I live off-grid in western Montana, at 6000', in one of the neighborhoods that will probably pop up for people looking for land. As someone else said, off-grid land at higher altitudes is unlikely to have flat spaces till you make them. A friend with a road grader flattened us a spot to build our house. We have flattened other spots with our backhoe. A backhoe or skid steer is really pretty essential equipment to building off-grid. If you cannot buy your own, make good friends with your neighbors who are so equipped! Barter is alive and well, so trading use of equipment for something else is very possible.
Off-grid and up high, there are plenty of springs, so wells are not very common. Our water is piped to our house from a spring about 200' uphill, gravity fed, clear and COLD!
DO NOT expect realtors to know the nitty gritty of winter access in such areas. TALK to your potential neighbors. For example, my neighborhood is technically seasonal access only, but, in the 10 years we have been here, the amount of plowing taking place, and the reliability with which it happens, have increased steadily. Instead of snowmobiling the 3 miles closest to home all winter, last year, as was the case for years, we snowmobiled about a mile for part of winter, not at all for the rest, for example. The rest was plowed by neighbors with equipment. (Our neighborhood roads are private, not County owned. We pay for maintenance via a grazing lease with a neighboring ranch)
In my area, Starlink has been available since June of 2021. My hubs is a telecommuting computer programmer, so internet service is necessary to our bread and butter. In the decade we have been here, we have used cell service, with a signal booster, HughesNet, ViaSat, and now, Starlink, which blows the doors off of the rest. We use our phones on wifi over Starlink, as well.