The biggest thing I have noticed over the years is that since the advent of social media like Facebook and the hideous TIK TOK craze; the longer social media has been around the more narcistic people have become. Many people have impossible demands of a potential partner; I understand people want their ideal partner and should not 'just settle' but they need to be realistic about who or what they are going to attract and be compatible with. For instance, on a dating site a friend showed me recently; a gal that was 4ft tall/220 lbs./no teeth/and on the gov't dole/ and has a criminal record- was looking for a guy who was at least 6 ft. tall, in shape, educated, owned his own home, in an upper income earning bracket/and drives a nice car/and better learn to put up with her 'I'm a bitch and proud of it' attitude. Just how realistic is this? Are people like this actually serious or do they just post stuff like this for the fun of it?
I do not participate in things like Facebook or Tik Tok but have seen the things people post on there, and it looks like people have gone mad. People are completely out of touch with reality. It also seems like the longer the internet has existed, the more out of touch with reality that people are. Not enough people know how to 'be human' anymore.
I have not dated in probably twelve years or so. Most of the gals I have had relationships with have way too much baggage for me to deal with and it felt like they wanted me for a ATM machine even though they made more than me.
I have spent most of my life living pretty simple out in the country so I was one of the last people to get introduced to the internet and just recently acquired a cell phone and it looks to me like technology has changed how people deal with others now. Things are way off kilter in human relations now. Before I got internet and way before I got a cell phone, I noticed how people got to be more arrogant and narcistic, and thought maybe something was wrong with me. But I have learned it isn't me that has the problem, it is all those who have been changed from seeing to much b.s on the net and taking part in social media and trying to conform to that b.s. world.
Maybe if technology went down and people had to sweat and bleed for their food, maybe they would learn to 'be human' again.