Helen Butt wrote:Better to aim high than aim low.
Hello, I too, thought this thought for most of my life. Over the last several years I have practiced letting things, like my expectations, go. They seem, expectations, cause a lot of stress on a lot of aspects of life. Letting them go doesn't mean passivity, or being a doormat. It means you don't even waste your time considering it. Those red flags can be seen way before we start considering them, if we are aware. Sadly, those pheromones kick in and our awareness gets a bit cloudy.