Elfriede B wrote:
Fences were maintained, this was not communal living. I would call it intensive neighborhood. People depended on each other for help in emergencies, for their social life and entertainment. Certain work was done in cooperation, for instance to put a roof on house or barn, the neighbors pitched in. There was music and singing. In winter the women and girls would congregate in different houses to do the spinning. Of course I was a mere child but I felt very secure in my world, knew everybody, learned a lot because I liked to watch what people were doing. The community was pretty busy and humming along since most people were at home. Crime was about nonexistent, though some boys might have a fight over a girl. Everybody stayed pretty much on the straight and narrow, after all, what would the neighbors say.
What would the neighbors say.
I'm feeling like there is a strong sense of honor and reputation in this picture. Part of honor is being dependable. Folks trusting (with good reason) that you will help in an emergency or barn raising.
I like the meaning of "intensive neighborhood." Many people still have this sense of dependability. There's just less of it and it's more spread out. Part of the reason it was so rich was it was much more enjoyable (or easier?) to survive with help from others. I think before cheap energy revolutions this honor was the norm in most rural places.
(Nowadays "what would the neighbors say" may have morphed into keeping up with Jones's and latest styles.)
This is a great thread, it'd be nice to get it going again.