So John!
How do you know when you have found her? In an age where online is the way to go, and feelings are rarely gauged on these forums. So sparks fly online?
It is strange in these times I must say, and I cannot understand why it is so difficult to find "the other person".
We are coming from times where there were mail order brides and people made it. People travelling for jobs, vacations, fairs etc and somehow found their person. People grouping on the big frontier and traveling for land and found a mate. So what is so different in our times?
There has to something that breaks this brass ceiling that now prevents people from connecting on that true level. When the One who ordained " that when a man finds a wife, he finds a good thing, and obtains favor" is in charge..hearts will always connect and life will flow.
My hope and prayer is that you will find her somehow.

. I believe true love exist for those who have the heart to share.
BTW, you never shared how mature you are

(age).
Have a great night