Hey, I'm also in VA (southern VA that is, the real virginia, since NOVA is NOT VA
)
Considering the abundance that a small, urban/suburban lot can produce with good design, there are MAJOR advantages to being on the edge between RURAL/SUBURBAN.
That's a huge market that could be tapped into and being close to the population center is a huge advantage.
Don't feel like you need to flee for the hills. I have ~30 rural acres to manage, and right now I'm literally only focusing on about 1.5 of it. The resources required to go beyond that right now is beyond my current ability.
Check out Geoff's most recent
video on the food forest in the small urban lot in Canada. Big inspiration there.