trying to calmly accept that the squirrels will harvest some of the things that grow
I hear you on this. I have a mature English Walnut (at least 60 years old, possibly 100).
There are several squirrels who showed up every day, ate one walnut, and took another one home with them.
Perfectly acceptable behavior to me.
Then, there is one squirrel who shows up, eats half a walnut, drops it, and takes another.
He will go through dozens each visit - every day during the season.
Another squirrel is almost as bad.
Between these two squirrels, I'm losing about 3-4 dozen per day for weeks on end.
Hundreds of walnuts over the season. Won't leave me much of a harvest.
This is not acceptable to me.
I'm going to have to teach them some manners if they want to hang out here.
Maybe a sling-shot (with some half walnuts for ammunition)?