To elaborate. We do like to judge events as good or bad. That can be limiting. It takes a lot practice to marginally improve that strong instinct. " That apple fel on my head. Ouch!" That is pretty easy to interpret as bad. But if we take a step back and try to open ourselves through time to what possibilities that a negative event offers and how it might apply to the other things going on in our lives, persuading us to action in this way or that, we may later come to see that "Ouch!" as a good thing and very fortuitous. Doesn't that make sense? The apples are ripe for cider.