I am interested in befriending my equal, best friend, lover and life companion.
Co-creating the life we both as individuals have within ourselves become extremely clear in how we wish to live our lives
and thus attract a deeply kindred person,
who for themselves embraces what is most vitally important to themselves within themselves,
within their relationships to others and within their lives
and these qualities are very much in sync with mine.
Equality is absolutely essential!
No sexism/reverse sexism,
We consciously chose our attitudes, behavours and roles.
Constructive, open, vanurable, trusting and honest communications.
Freely chosen committment by each of us to our beautifully created sacred relationship.
Complimenting one anothers natural (gifts we were born with) and developed skills, wisdom, experiences and insights...
I would appreciate a friend to hang out with together.
To share 😁 to play with, to go on hikes within the wilderness, to share cycling / camping / climbing with,
to study plants, language, permaculture and more with,
to meditate with,
to share delicious vegan meals with,
to create art, music y movement with,
to travel with,
to share from the heart,
to garden with,
to care for puppies,
to teach y to learn from,
I would love having a beautiful woman in my life,
who really loves y adores me,
who cherishes me y is so incredibly grateful for me as a sacred gift
in her life
as I do her,
who loves to do many things together that i listed above, as a friend,
a best friend,
a life companion,
a soul mate,
who loves to be affectionate,
loves to make love for hours and cuddle up ithin one anothers bodies,
who is mutually respectful,
who is kind, compassionate, funny,
an excellent communicator,
who every day is excited to hear from y to see me, as i am her.
who wants to build a life, a home y family of close kindred friends,
and maybe, not essentially, children together.
I welcome learning about you!
Who you are?
What inspires you and touches your heart and spirit?
What are your passions, aspirations and dreams within your life?!
I am very comfortable with who I am
with whom I have created myself to be
rather then for anyone external,
including but not limited to....
governments, religions, institutions, national, peers. parental, social / societal-mass mentality,
where little intelligence nor individuality usually exists - norms,
(in truth there is no such things as a norm)
Its all about your own limitations in what you have allowed yourself to explore and experience!)
I am extremely confident in myself and living my life,
as I have and am continuing to for myself,
consciously developing my skills,
embracing my wisdom / insights,
and immersing myself in my experiences,
enjoying my own autopoietic nature,
through out my life time.
I am very much my own person
and I enjoy to enthusiastically support others in being so for themselves,
discovering what is truely right for you within your life,
in which attitudes, practices, actions...you embrace for what is right for you!
I enthusiastically love to inspire. teach and share others within themselves and within their lives!
as long as we have a relationship of MUTUAL RESPECT.
MUTUAL RESPECT, constructive, open, direct and honest communication skills is absolutely essential
in any relationship I welcome into my life,
including with a beloved partner, best friend and life companion.
I grew up immersed in...
numerous aspects of
different types of eco housing, food forests, organic gardens and orchards, appropriate technology, etc.
both working in retail produce and herbal department management for years,
and in being an organic grower of a huge diversity of edible and medicinal ethnobotanical plants for my own use,
for sale of the plants and seeds
and for harvesting and sales of the fruits, vegetables, etc.
natural health and healing...
meditation n chi gong - since I was 8 years old,
medicinal herbalist / ethnobotany / wild crafting wherever I have traveled and lived,
massage therapist (12 types)
nlp / hypnotherapy, gestalt, nutrition, movement. etc...
and teach many of these too!
As do I teach aspects of permaculture,
indigenous living skills (survival skills), organics, etc
I also grew up with the respectful education system of Montessori,
in its original form.
Always living as nature is my equal, guide, best friend and true home,
and happily re/learning the silent and sounded languages of nature,
re/learning how nature intended us to live, etc.
Active in my daily life caring for wild life and domesticated animals rescue and rehabilitation.
25 years + as a Direct Action Vegan / Animal and Nature Liberationist,
and other qualities which are intimately interwoven within my life.
I will not limit myself and have no interests in doing so unto others
by societal stereotypes of what is masculine, feminine,
white, black, spiritual, athiest, etc.
I love knowing an individual for who they are for themselves!
I absolutely love being playful and multi creative,
multi instrumentalist, writing, movement, creating my own clothing, my own home, etc.
I would prefer to live in a world where everything is hand made.
I am a romantic at heart
and that is an essential quality of any woman I would consider being with.
The mutual creative celebration of our love!!!
I am healthy and fit,
I love on an almost daily basis
hiking, cycling, climbing, wild crafting, etc
I am a poet, storyteller, contemplative and social/political (humorous) commentary writer,
I have absolutely NO TIME for anybodys dogmas.
I have lived fairly self sufficent
and off the grid various times in my life, already.
I happily have chosen to relocate
and have been discerningly exploring different countries and areas of those countries I have chosen
and I have (am) discovering
where are the best living environments, for me.
Where there is the actually the most respect for personal freedoms.
That leaves out certain countries from consideration immediately.
There are some intelligent, deep, conscious people in these countries,
just like anywhere in the world,
I simply would not lived in them due to the governments, military, corporations, police forces, etc.
I have ABSOLUTELY NO RESPECT for them!!!
In truth, I have no respect for these in any country.
I love living in MUTUAL RESPECT!!!
It is the most intelligent manner in which to live!
You may be a totally amazing gift into the lives of those you love and are loved by
and that could include me, though I am extremely discerning in where I live.
I do authentically appreciate your interest.
I can elaborate more with you, directly and privately.
I use encripted systems ONLY,
for private personal information.
Now with that clarity...
I have some flexibility in where I purchase land,
build my home, life, work, community, etc
so please feel free to contact me and we can discuss both of our personal preferences in where we wish to live,
and if in sync, we can advance within exploring our potential relationship.
Possibly somewhere in lovely British Columbia/Canada, Denmark, Portugal, Spain or....
parts of South and Central America (which I have explored in depth),
parts of Africa and other locations in this big beautiful natural world.
I am originally from the Netherlands,
though grew up in part in the Netherlands as a youth,
also, for a time in the u.s. and within the U.K.
For those of you that these things would matter to...
I am healthy, physically fit, with a balance of incredible energies and deeply at peace within myself.
I have lived in various countries now,
exploring for the right space for me to settle in...
I welcome your responses
and have an absolutely positive and life affirming day!
My Whats App / Wire and Telegram is +56 9 9297 3083