Hi Arron; Welcome to the wonderful world of rocket science!
Question) Are used clay bricks readily available? How about new ? In the US new bricks are -.50 each at home depot.
They would be your best choice as a mass. Also very stylish in your living room.
Going out a window will work for an exhaust BUT... any chimney outside the home must be insulated or you will not have a good draft.
Question) Are you familiar with the different styles of rmh building? I.E.) J tube or batch box? Do you know which you prefer?
Were you wanting a bench to sit on or a bell ?
How old are your children? Do you have pets (cats) ?
A J tube style rmh has an open hole to the fire. Small children can drop "things" into the fire... imagine a barbie doll ....
A long hair cat could drape its tail in the fire... really bad.... then run about the house...
A J tube also generally uses a barrel as part of the stove... hard to hide a 55 gallon barrel in your living room in upscale Switzerland!
A batch box stove is more traditional, in that the fire is sealed away from young hands or cat tails... However it is much more complicated to build.
It is usually all brick construction and has a traditional look that most people find pleasing.
Here is a link to a Master builder. Matt sells detailed plans to build his stoves, he also sells a prebuilt J tube (core only) and Matt gives as many phone/internet consultations as you need as part of the cost.
His stoves are outstanding !
http://walkerstoves.com/index.html