posted 4 years ago
It sounds like you have a good setup and enjoy what you do, which makes everything a million times better.
About taking on too much, I am in the same position currently; maybe 2 or 3 years ago I had progressed out of the "always crazy because I took on too much work" to stability (by getting rid of cheaper clients and projects I didn't enjoy, and focusing on good ones with better yield) and not feeling like I needed to grab everything in case suddenly things went from feast to famine.
Then 2020 came and everything went sideways. I`m doing great but my spouse's business keeps veering closer to the brink (slow business, now scarcity of parts), and this week that panic mentality got me taking on more work than I can handle (which is why I'm here working on Saturday and tomorrow too). I'm not starving, but it can be hard to shake the fear, especially when both partners run their own thing and there is no solid paycheck to rely on.