So, from mango
land here-- while there are plantations, most people here with mangoes in the
yard don't bother thinning- it's hard to get up there, most people pick with poles, and it doesn't seem to affect size from what I have seen (I regularly pick trees that get no attention whatsoever, in abandoned areas, and they are packed with fruit and do just fine).
Sometimes water availability can make fruit go from large to extra large or stay a bit smaller, but in general from what I've seen fruit size tends to be a trait for each tree. Here we have more kinds of mangoes than I know the name for, and each has a size range- from tiny coconut mangoes (mostly seed, maybe the size of a ping-pong ball) to huge honking Tommy Palmer mangoes, where I've seen them almost as big as my head, although those were total "hey look at this" anomalies-- a palmer mango is usually about the size of my hand. I don't think I've seen a kent mango outside of
books, so I can't speak to that specific one.
My concern would mostly be about actual fruiting (here we tend to lose entire seasons due to sudden weather like a windstorm that blows all the "flowers" away, for example) and then flavor. Your tree seems mature
enough at 3 meters and setting out flowers. Maybe it's just a smaller kent. Do they taste good?