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Seeking land, to inherit/learn alongside an elder permie, or co-collaborators

 
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I wanted that title to be even more specific, but it was impossible to do so and not be annoying at the same time.

Hi permies, my name is Nora.
How to begin this intro!? Autobiography is a strange realm.

I’m 29, my husband/partner/bestie/bandmate is B, he’s 37, I think.
We lose track once in a while, when our kids have birthdays (3, 6 year old boys).

I met him while I was WWOOFing around the midwestern United States. He was a farmhand, I a young intern. We connected over music, started a little band together; kept working on other folks’ farms for upwards of 7 years, even after having one child, then two. Our kids have grown up mostly on farms (occasionally when we run low on funds, we stop into a city and work for a bit, then go back at it.) and they are so robust and smart for it.

Our work has mostly entailed being a part of huge vegetable CSAs (100+ member, 50+ member) plus harvesting for markets; that includes spring set up, summer maintenance and harvest, fall tear down, and winter upkeep. Animal husbandry experience is limited to chickens, ducks, and goats, although we got real intimate with those; many, many seasons growing, harvesting, drying and preparing medicinal and culinary herbs (me), including long hours in the apothecary; moderate experience in carpentry and natural building; and two seasons maintaining apple orchards.

B is a teacher, spent many years at Waldorf, but loves Montessori perhaps a bit more. I’ve run a small daycare out of my home (wherever home is for the moment). I’m a birth and postpartum doula, and I sell herbal folk remedies to my friends and acquaintances. B is an amazing artist and for the past year has cultivated an art business that we are proud of.

We are most interested in learning .. everything we don’t know. Seriously, very very open. We’d love more experience in permaculture concepts of water saving, natural building, tree identification and maintenance, soil regeneration/regenerative agriculture, wildcrafting. I’m sure I don’t have the correct terminology for plenty that I’d like to say so I’ll leave it there.

I’ve posted on here previously asking for advice for a southern climate. B was supposed to inherit land that’s been in a family trust, but unfortunately, a greedy relative did some shady shit, and the property that should be ours (and our children’s childrens’) is no longer available for us to be or build on. We’re trying to not be hellishly depressed about it, but of course, we are.

So while we continue to work and save up a bit more, in the city, I want to extend our tendrils into the outer community.

We know there are many old, lovely hippies who did a lot of this work previously, many of whom may not have loving, willing, excited family members to pass it on to. We’re wondering if maybe we can be that for someone, if someone can be what we have lost. We’re looking, very plainly, for land that we can buy, rent, rent to own, or work to own, and we are more than willing to learn from and work alongside said owner for as long as it takes to fully grok the land, the way, and the mission.

We are passionate about the land we live on. (America.) My partner is Anishinaabe and Black (among many other things), indigenous land reclamation is important to us. My ancestors were Norwegian, Scottish and Cherokee.
We aren’t especially drawn toward the northeastern/colonial US, in our experience there’s a lot of racist folks there.
Pacific Northwest, dope. Midwest, dope. Southern US, dope. Southwest? Meh. Not enough water. Montana, Idaho? Dope.

We are passionate about children, about dismantling the existing educational systems from the inside (yes, including Waldorf ), about creating and re-creating and RESTORING slow, meaningful, intent-full ways of being and living on the earth. We treat our children with love, respect, patience (most of the time lol), and remain conscious of our inherited traumas so we don’t pass them on. Life’s work.

We also love music, and we especially love when music and farming meet. We’ve enjoyed being a part of small to mid sized midwestern festivals that highlight farming and permaculture in their communities.

Lots more to say but that feels like a full intro to begin with.

So, if you’re a person, people, a family, looking to connect to perhaps purchase land together — comment below! pm me!

If you’re a person, people, a family, looking to pass your well-loved land along to someone who will uphold the vision with integrity and creativity — you’ve found willing, able, and excited folks. Please comment below and/or pm me.

If you read this far, wooohoo! Appreciate you! <3 I’ve learned so much on these forums, and I continue to scour it daily for more


EDIT TO ADD: TOTALLY OPEN TO OTHER COUNTRIES! POLITICS IN AMERICA IS TERRIFYING
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Sounds like you need to learn about the Skills to Inherit Property (SKIP) program offered here on permies.

I think there are around 22 people looking for people to inherit their land and are using the program to find suitable candidates.

Check out the link  - All about SKIP
 
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Burra Maluca wrote:Sounds like you need to learn about the Skills to Inherit Property (SKIP) program offered here on permies.

I think there are around 22 people looking for people to inherit their land and are using the program to find suitable candidates.

Check out the link  - All about SKIP



I had no idea about this. THANK YOU

edit: it looks like a lot a lot, and rather overwhelming … I’ve already done so much of this stuff without photographic proof. I’m living in the city right now with two kids. Not sure if this is feasible but I’ll keep looking and learning, as per usual. thank you :)
 
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Hello Nora!

It is really not so hard!

This does not have to be a whole new thing you have to do.
You can get a long way through the program by just documenting the things you are doing anyway!  

Cook a stir fry, clean the kitchen, fix a garden hose.


Get familiar with the Badge bits.   Then you will know as you go through the day all the things you can get a badge bit for.  

"I gotta go get hay"
there is a badge bit for hitching and backing a trailer.

"My kids did not eat all their food"
There is a badge bit for feeding food scraps to pets


you can do it!
 
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Hi
Took me 20 minutes to figure out how to reply. Keep it simple seems to be harder and harder to achieve these days.
Sounds like you re not interested in the southwest which is where I am but am in transition and open to anywhere other than freezing cold.
I am a 72 year old ex live off the land, garden, raise livestock etc etc single woman. Amazon lady that I was, I spent about 20 years attempting to adapt to the circumstances I was and am now challenged with. I am now in a wheelchair and been forced to live in out of my element places on concrete, by busy roads and congestion (at one point I thought of putting big tires on my wheelchair and considered moving to the amazon).
I have a few ideas in this section of the world or should I say possible options for acquiring land though unable to obviously live the life this website promotes without help. I am very independent, knowledgeable, resourceful, creative and yearning to be around like-minded people. With no kids (though I love and get along well with kids) and barely family (i always considered my stallion horse as my soulmate though not in a perverted way), my thought is to settle down for the last time, find some help with another or others, and live the life again this website promotes. Yes, I am more than happy to will the property to whoever may walk alongside me in this journey. Again, I am not very needy at this point in time and consider myself flexible and easy-going.
So if you, Nora, or anyone else for that matter, feels drawn to inquire further, please respond or drop me a line at acronrod@gmail.com.

You have a beautiful family by the way.

Peace
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Nora--I am part of a land trust in West Virginia. The last remaining founder of this community has moved to another one to be with his new love after his wife died a few years ago, so his leasehold is now available. Yes, it's a land trust so technically you don't own the land, you get a lifetime lease. You  can find more info on the Hickory Ridge page on the intentional communities website, ic.org check out the directory.
The available leasehold has a small house and a guesthouse--for a family of four you might want to connect the two to expand space. No flush toilets here, that's a dealbreaker for some. That leasehold has 16 solar panels in  a grid-tied system, so it's only $5/month minimum bill to the electric company. There is a large, well-established garden and an old orchard in need of renovation. No other kids here. Another possible dealbreaker is that while the climate here is excellent for homesteading, the political/social climate..well I can't say anything about that without breaking cider press rules, but it's a problem for me and might be for you.
 
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