I find that dogbane only inhabits poor or thin soil and doesn’t grow at all on rich soil, at least in the wild, so I wouldn’t be terribly afraid of them spreading, though if I lived near such poor soils I would appreciate it. There is a patch nearby with very nice tall stalks, beside a gravel driveway in the mountains and overhung by pines, that I have been gathering from for fiber, and so I have some seeds. It might be worth looking at a local wildflower seed company or dividing from a wild patch first. I have found it very hard to start wildflowers from seed. But if you can’t find any and you’re in a relatively similar climate so that they have a better chance of success, you can PM me about it—I
should be able to send a few.
I hope your growing goes well!