Stacy Wright wrote:
That's tough for an introverted family like mine, but it would be very beneficial to have friendships with people who live very close by. Already I've gotten some great information on local businesses and services just by having a few conversations. I've just got to stop being so shy!
Hi Stacy and welcome!
Don't be shy here at permies. One thing I studied suggested that introversion is all about how one recharges one's psychic batteries, alone or from other people. I am most definitely an introvert, although I can work a crowd if the situation calls for it. Just leave me alone to gather my wits an energy for a bit afterwards.
Preparedness vs resiliency: I think one is just more long-term. What do you eat while you wait for the meat chickens to mature? Or if all the chicks get eaten by a raccoon. Vs why eat freezes dried mashed potatoes when I can have potatoes I grew 4 months ago. Strike whatever balance lets you sleep at night! I think that boundary shifts as we get more confident in our systems and know what just works. In other words, knowing that I have corn and squash growing in the garden gives me a great deal of comfort regardless of what happens out there tomorrow, but maybe a different kind of comfort than 5 gallon buckets that will eventually run out. There is potential for abundance far beyond anything I can imagine, just as there is potential for havoc by things I can't control. Planting seeds is within my control, so I choose to focus on that and let the rest go for today. A good reminder to plant some dill seed so we have it well timed for pickle-making. I never canned a single thing before 4-5 years ago. Things change; I don't have to worry about it as much the more I know I can adapt.