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Alan McGill wrote:Hi Jen,
thanks for the reply. I'm sorry to take so long getting back to you. I don't have internet access where I'm currently living.
Your design is nicely drawn. I have to confess, I'm having trouble understanding your design, what's path and what's beds. As to getting folks to help, I'm still learning about that myself. My missing leg is more obvious than fibromyalgia, but I still have an ongoing task of communicating my needs and creating a situation where people can help and not lose something in the process. We always want everyone to be better off.
That said, I am finding that people are generally willing to help. What helps is when I'm organized enough to let people help as little or as much as they are inclined to do so. I'm really working on that one. It seems like you have a real handle on the work you want done, so if you were to break it down into specific tasks, folks will be able to pick a task they're willing to take on.
Another idea is a work party, pot-luck or other such gathering of friends. This can be fun!
I've been able to do some barters with friends who helped me with some painting in return for my design work. Maybe you could make a pie, design a rain garden, or do some other work in return for the physical work.
I'm surprised that you're not finding permies to be friendly and welcomin, but who knows.
One other thought, your design doesn't have to have a permaculture label on it. Having a water harvesting, healthy food producing garden seems like enough.
Thanks again for sharing your challenges. Please keep us posted. I think we can establish beneficial relationships and healthy interactions where everyone wins.
Idle dreamer
Kim Kish wrote:Hi! Thanks for your post. I am new here and trying to reply.
Gardens in my mind never need water
Castles in the air never have a wet basement
Well made buildings are fractal -- equally intelligent design at every level of detail.
Bright sparks remind others that they too can dance
What I am looking for is looking for me too!
Pearl Sutton wrote:Hi Kim! Welcome to Permies!
The blue reply button posts a reply to the whole thread, it does not end up with their post, it ends up at the end of it all. The Quote button will quote their post in your post, like this
Kim Kish wrote:Hi! Thanks for your post. I am new here and trying to reply.
This thread last had a post in 2017. Whoever you are replying said it long ago. So put a post about your own stuff here, without the earlier people, and we'll just start talking about all this again!
I get notifications on this because I'm disabled and doing my best to live how I want to. Some days it ain't easy.
THANK YOU PEARL FOR BEING HERE AND REPLYING!❤️❤️❤️
I STILL DON’t think I understand how to repky in the thread.
Welcome to permies, and let's start this thought back up!
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Kim Kish wrote:Oh so sorry. I did that wrong and the whole thing ended up in a quote. Ok I will try again after some rest.
Gardens in my mind never need water
Castles in the air never have a wet basement
Well made buildings are fractal -- equally intelligent design at every level of detail.
Bright sparks remind others that they too can dance
What I am looking for is looking for me too!
Joshua Myrvaagnes wrote:Here's what I think is a really solvable problem but hasn't been solved yet that I knwo of.
You have people who are low energy, not healthy enough to push into the ratrace but well enough to work out in nature. Nature is healing. It's the Secret Garden effect. So, if you can just get people like us started we'll get stronger in time.
I applied to live and work at a Steiner community where they take care of elderly people. It's an awesome place, beautiful, biodyanmic farm, woods, a stream, gorgeous as f---. And I loved the people there and the conversastions I had with the farmers, learning that only 15% of the world's arable soil is really healthy (well hopefully it's gone up a bit since then, that was like 2007). Feeling connected, like I could relax, I'd be safe, I would be supported by the Earth rather than by the stress of a job and impressing someone else and pushing harder to be someone I'm not. Feeling abundant and like heck, the Earth doesn't care who I am, it's supporting me unconditionally. Really beautiful feeling. And the fact that they said that the "from each according to his ability to each according to his need" principle was how they did things there made it really feel manageable.
So I applied to be a co-worker there (that's the term they use for the people who do the work and take care of the farm or elderly persons) and they said they needed able-bodied people only. I was really disappointed, and I thought maybe I should apply again and lie and tell them I'm well and jsut tough it out. But my second application I never heard back from, and it seems they could be a bit disorganized. I gave up at the time, though I still think about applying again. I got more into my own gardening and learning at that point though, which was an amazing experience and continues to be. I still think though wouldn't it be great if I could pool resources? wouldn't it be great if I could just work on a farm and get my strength back? and even better if the effort was being intelligently applied, like using permaculture brilliance rather than excessive amounts of brawn. That would be so satisfying.
I really really feel a strong sense that I could get my health all the way back if I could work in nature--work hard, some of the time, be able to rest when I need to but push my body again. I'm thirsty for it. I just don't think it'd be good to promise someone and not fully deliver.
But to get back to the quesiton at hand--I'd say a way of integrating folks wtih chronic fatigue/fibromyalgia and so on is to give us an opportunity to work and also be able to rest as needed while getting our health back. The social inclusion and opportunity to do meaningful work and connection to nature is a huge help for many a disabled/chronically ill person.
Alan McGill wrote:Hi Kim,
Welcome. I got a notice about your post because I participated in the old one. What's up with you?
Gardens in my mind never need water
Castles in the air never have a wet basement
Well made buildings are fractal -- equally intelligent design at every level of detail.
Bright sparks remind others that they too can dance
What I am looking for is looking for me too!
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