Just pulling numbers out of my arse, but I would say:
5 acres and under is small. When a property of this size plotted, it was probably intended to be a spot with a house, maybe some woods, and a good deal of grass. At this size you might have non-chicken livestock, but if you do you probably bring in a fair amount of food for them.
40 acres is medium. A quarter mile long by a quarter mile wide makes for a medium size plot. I would call
Crooked Gap farm in Iowa a great example of a medium sized farmstead. You can hear all about their exploits at:
http://thebeginningfarmer.com/
100+ acres would be large. At this point
cattle makes sense and the broad acre programs of the USDA really come into play.
These are just my numbers. I'm sure someone out there will be able to point to some example of someone grossing $100,000 on a tenth of an acre selling micro-greens/nursery stock/magic beans, so a 5 acre plot must be huge.