Joy Oasis wrote:I think all women need is to be present and a partner who is attractive to them and present too. Everything else is nature and takes care of itself. 
Yes, but being "present" is not always easy, especially when there's always a lot to get done, stress, and you never know when your toddler will wake up screaming... Now, if there were a herb that could block all that out (and didn't have horrible side-effects), I'd be all for it!