In defense of figs, my family eats them with relish. They
sell nine of them in a special designed tray for 7 dollars on a regular basis in the grocery stores here. The reason you don't see them in the stores is that they are a very delicate fruit to ship, with a short shelf life. Fresh figs are nothing like the dried figs you may be familiar with from fig Newtons. I suggest you try a fresh one before you give up on your fig tree.
I do admit that does look like a scraggly specimen right now. I've seen them literally growing wild here (in Austin) so I would expect it to be doing better there. Do you have heavy clay or compacted soil in your yard? Poor drainage will hurt nearly every tree you plant, so it would be a good idea to address any issues you have before you plant more trees. The solution can be as easy as planting your fruit trees in mounds (soil, not hugels) instead of ground level. Six inches up can make the difference between life an death for a tree. Don't make the mistake of heavily amending the soil in a planting hole, that creates two problems (especially in clay soils) the hole will catch and hold
water like a giant planter with insufficient drainage. And the tree
roots will try to stay within that area of improved soil instead of spreading out, this leaves the tree more vulnerable during times of drought. Dig your holes (and build any necessary mounds) with the existing soil and then top dress with any amendments.
As for late additions of nitrogen to your hugelbeds, crazy as it may sound the cheapest and easiest to get a hold of would be
urine. Yes, human urine is a good source of nitrogen and a lot of other trace minerals that plants want. In most cases it's recommended you dilute it (1/3 urine to water is the most concentrated I've seen recommended) but right now you have a lot of
carbon to buffer any errors. Another option that I've had luck with is animal manures. Often people on Craigslist will be offering it to anyone willing to haul their own. The thing you'll need to watch for here is if the animal isn't on organic feeds, much of the animal
feed these days is becoming contaminated with persistent herbicides that aren't broken down in the digestive system. If you get contaminated manure it can take a long time work it's way back out of your soil.
There are a lot of people who have had good results planting nitrogen fixing cover crops. I've only seen this work as a side effect of growing a patch of bluebonnets (which are nitrogen fixing legumes) in my yard. It only took two winters to have the grass become too thick for the bluebonnets to reseed. This is in an area that gets no special treatment, including no water in the summer. Frustrating that I don't get the flowers, but a good sign of how well they fix nitrogen, even when you let them go to seed.