Thank you, thank you, thank you, all!!! This is an excellent post! It provides evidence to what I've been experiencing (and all of you!) -- that synthetic fragrance scents and perfumes are becoming impossible to get out! I'm incredibly sensitive to scents -- and it just drives me crazy that I can't get scents out. Thank you to Paul, especially, for the link and description about fabric softener composition and emulsifiers getting into the weave of the fabrics. Super helpful.
FWIW, my latest approach for machine washable natural fibers (typically 100% cotton) is similar to the posters in this
thread -- I put vinegar in all the compartments of my HE LG front loader (detergent, bleach and fabric softener) and run a long cycle, extra water, extra rinse in
hot water. Then I smell the wet laundry -- if perfume or synthetic fragrance is still there, I repeat; if I can't smell it, I run a regular wash cycle with detergent (Dr. Bronner's Sal Suds) and vinegar in the fabric softener compartment. Then I smell wet laundry again. If I can smell any scent or fragrance, I repeat the whole thing. Otherwise, I air dry and then smell again. I try not to use the
dryer until I'm sure the smell is gone -- I'm worried the heat will further bake the synthetic fragrance or scent into the fibers making it even harder to get out.
I've also started using Arm and Hammer Washing Soda in the drum for the wash cycle (1/2-3/4 cup) since I have hard water and think it may be affecting the ability to get the scents out--when I had softer water in a different
city vinegar typically did the trick. It seems to be working, but I only started this a couple of days ago.
Since I am scent-sensitive, we are a scent-free house. However, I end up with scents when friends or family visit, especially in the sheets and towels (and I can smell it throughout the house).
Alas, just like other posters above, sometimes the scent is impossible to get out and then I typically
donate the item. Very frustrating that it takes so much time,
energy and resources to get rid of these synthetic fragrances or perfumes.