I think a seal as you describe would work as long as the metal edge was sunk deep enough into the sand. Not sure how much is necessary.
I don't think the top is the best location for a radiant panel, though; it would be sending heat up to the ceiling, not out into the space where people could quickly feel it. I would set an access panel into a face of the bell, to serve two purposes: instant heat directly to the room occupants, and easy access for inspection, maintenance and repair of the combustion core without having to dismantle brickwork. A steel angle frame anchored to the masonry, with a flat steel panel screwed into it, works excellently in my experience.