I'm definitely and introvert and love country life and yet I've ended up in the middle of Wichita, KS. with almost an acre of food forest, home and a cafe building. I've also managed to have goats and chickens with paddocks. All paid for from my gardening business, which worked great as an introvert. (My Beautiful Day Cafe went down with covid, of which i relied on extroverts to do my socializing. )
I'm "retiring" and folding my businesses into Green Street Urban Homestead Sanctuary, a non profit 508c1a spiritual ministry, reverencing nature as an expression of Creator. I'm not advertising, in order to keep interest slowed down.
Yet, still, people, one at a time, come round and admire or offer to volunteer in the gardens. I'm keeping my boundaries by setting 2 mornings a week for classes or homesteading with people. Eventually, there will be a person that can garden with people or give classes without me being there.
If people come to my door unscheduled, I don't have to answer it. I also have a camera set up. When I'm out working in the yards, teenagers, mom's with strollers, rough looking guys with grilled teeth, even folks in their cars stop to say how they love seeing the animals and gardens. If I don't feel like socializing, I don't make eye contact and I keep portions of the yards hidden from view. And I've learned to excuse myself gracefully or not as needed.
Rather than going out for community, they come to me. So far, so good!