I'm loving the thread as I feel this way this week! I want out! (but not really...)
Thanks for sharing the video Scott Foster. The big shift from seeing it as a business to living it as a lifestyle is so crucial though $ is important. But the emotional investment is indeed HUGE. I can struggle to see the bigger picture when overwhelmed with workload as my partner and I are shooting for meeting many of our long terms needs upfront without a large bank account. My installed PV solar and therefore don't need to worry about monthly bills.
"The BIGGEST problem of all are books, magazines and magazine articles, videos and online brands written and made by people who came into farming with a substantial bank account or a substantial land inheritance from their parents. They will almost NEVER disclose this but will make it look all easy and neat. Well yeah, if I spend 15 years in New York trading stocks for a living and retired with 7 figures in the bank, I too can play farmer. ALWAYS ask first - what did the author bring to the table to start with. If they are not willing to start their book, article, website or video with that disclosure, you should be suspect of the contents. So for example, you may revere someone like Joel Salatin (many small farmers do). However, the first question you should ask is how he got into his land. Did he buy it at a fair price? Did he get it as a gift? I am sure he has published this somewhere, I am not picking on him, just using a household name for an example. Around his area of Virginia land now goes for $10K+ an acre. Just to get started on a small homestead would be $50K right out the door and that means no water, no internet, no infrastructure and ... nowhere to live (no house). "
Well said. isn't PC all about local and appropriate solutions. Following a philosphy or techniques can be dangerous. The idea of failing more to succeed seems a vald approach, one that i'm employing regularly ;)
This is a great convo as there's no RIGHT way to farm, homestead or produce good on the land for a profitable biz.
Meeting your own needs can SUCK sometimes. Rewarding when its flowing, but the drudgery can creep up... We did without power or running water for 2 years (not that big of a shift from previous nomadism) and had to sleep outdoors one winter when the yurt got moldy. I've been focusing on what WOKRS lately and all the successes to celebrate. Drip irrigation from a solar well pump is worth celebrating!
In the vid Stefan brought up 2 great points "if you farm and live there, don't walk around on the farm to try and make it feel better. Waling around, you'll see more things that aren't working." Can't escape this ughhh. So much to do...
"appreciate the best and expect the worst"
Would love to hear anyone else's feedback on way to stay balanced and healthy during the early years of establishment. Losing 80% of the elders we planted this spring and hustling to give buckets to trees in droughty times can wear we out! How to you seek a balance of tenacious effort and letting go?