My last Christmas gifts of the season will be delivered tomorrow, weather gods willing (right now they look pretty unwilling!)
Did I succeed in a Zero Dollar Christmas? Not quite, but close enough I am happy.
In addition to previous purchases, I spent another $3 to buy a Christmas tin for a food-gift when I ran out of containers. I suppose I also went over budget on food supplies, though those are hard to count, since I had them on hand, and just handwavingly used reward points at the grocery store to 'pay' myself back for them, and besides, how do you value 2L of homemade maple syrup?- but I had atrocious luck with candy this year, for a long list of reasons.
I suppose theoretically I could count the gas I spent to drive to visit for Christmas, but I visit about once a month anyways, so I'm not counting it!
All in all about $38 of real money spent on "Christmas", $35 of which I would have spent even without the holiday, (and about $80-100 spent of reward points, which I normally hoard and never use), with Christmas still being it's usual busy self, with token gifts for about a dozen people, and "good" gifts for 3. Could I have given fewer token gifts? Probably, but Christmas gifts are culturally/socially expected, and fairly important for relationship maintenance, so I am happy I managed to still do it. Plus, I enjoy it! I'd have felt awful NOT having return gifts for people who gave me small gifts.
I ended up going to a buy nothing event, where I got rid of some things I no longer needed, and found myself some sparkly gold glass Christmas tree ornaments and a few other things I needed. I was also given a strand of Christmas lights for my indoor houseplant Christmas tree, which I admit made the tree much more festive.
I ended Christmas still feeling like I got to enjoy all my favourite parts of the season after a very difficult year and despite a very tight budget, and I didn't end up feeling like I was being 'cheap'.
I would have ended up spending far less in total than my usual month, and did, in most categories , from groceries, up to and including my hydro bill, saving enough for the dishwasher AND the cabinet - except for 3 unforeseeable major emergencies in December which thoroughly destroyed my budget for the foreseeable future. Oh well. I'll get the hookup installed, and will keep my eyes open for cheap used dishwashers and used laminate countertops, and finish the project whenever time and money allows. Perhaps not what I had hoped to build, or quite as soon as I'd promised myself, but I will get it done. And find a used fridge, while I'm at it since mine is actively dying... In the spring, when I can get my trailer out. Sigh.