Hello Ms. Heather,
This is Floyd in Northeast Texas. I want to thank you for such a wonderful and informative post. Now, if I run into you down at the camel sheds, I'll know who you are.
Now back to the matter at hand. Oh, speaking of hand, I am a very handy guy ( double entendre). I wear jumbo gloves and sport a size 16 ring. I also may not be tall per se but, I am tall enough that you and I can see eye to eye.
I am a high mileage unit with a good working drive train but, I still can't qualify for an extended warranty.
I, like yourself, saw my personal relationship crash and burn a couple of years ago.
I am healthier and happier now and venture a little further from the barn each day.
I encourage you to be cautious toward any rebound relationships. Don't lift your bag for the first car that stops to offer you a ride.
While I think that I could make you a good partner, it just won't work between us. I just don't see myself leaving my little spread here in Texas and I'm afraid that it is just too far for me to drive up and cook you supper every evening and still get home in time to kill a chicken and churn.
I do wish you would explain your definition of
"not religious". Does that mean no God or no church or what exactly ? I know it's important to you because you mentioned it three times in your post. I mean no disrespect but, I ask for a couple of reasons. Firstly, I'd just like to know. Secondly, if the little cutie down at the feedstore brings it up, I won't be standing there with a dumb look on my face.
Your little homeplace looks beautiful and full of potential. May you continue to learn and enjoy the homesteading experience.
I wish you well and wish you luck in your quest for a life long companion.
Best regards, Floyd.
ps. I was always taught to dig sweet taters after a frost, it's supposed to make 'em sweeter.