Thanks for replying Thomas, and so quickly. heavy firebrick is the option so far, but i suspect they are sucking a lot of heat at the first stage of the burn, and delay good combustion in the riser. they weigh almost 80 kgrs (riser is made from insulating ones) . i would use these for the firebox too, but i fear abrasion due to knocking of the wood there, will damage them . So i thought i should protect their surface somehow.
i would prefer the system to be quick in reaching proper temperatures as it will be fired once a day probably, since i am in Greece.
Another option for the firebox i am considering these days is ytong bricks. they are rated for withstanding 1200C and fireproof, but haven't heard of anyone having used them. Thet are also very light, like the IFB's, they even look identical.