Biography
I’m Ben. I’m here with intention and looking for a long-term partner to build a family, a stable home, and a grounded life based on health, responsibility, and mutual commitment. I value honesty, loyalty, emotional maturity, and following through on what you say you’ll do.
My lifestyle is simple and practical. I enjoy cooking real food, spending time outdoors, staying physically capable, and investing energy into things that last. I prefer calm mornings, focused work, and evenings that are present rather than screen-driven. I’m steady and thoughtful by nature, with a playful and affectionate side that comes out once there’s trust.
Food and health are foundational for me, not trends. I eat an animal-based, whole-food diet and avoid ultra-processed foods and seed oils. I’m drawn to a woman who also takes her health seriously and enjoys caring for her body and home, whether her approach is carnivore, keto, animal-based, primal, or Weston A. Price–inspired.
I live cleanly: no smoking, drugs, cannabis, or alcohol. I’m not interested in intoxication-centered social scenes. Clarity and long-term well-being matter more to me.
I stay active through lifting, walking, hiking, cycling, camping, and time in nature. Long term, I want to own land and build a homestead or retreat-style property that supports family, resilience, and legacy.
I live in Lodi, California, near family. I’m 48 and work remotely as a Registered Nurse Case Manager with over 20 years in healthcare.
One non-negotiable: I do not accept vaccines for myself or future children. I want children and am seeking a woman aligned with medical freedom and informed consent. I’m not religious and prefer the same.
