Mark, it seems possible to me that pollination could be your issue, or rather lack thereof. Plants don't like to waste
energy on fruits that have no or poor pollination (no to few seeds inside). Have you tried hand pollinating? Generally take a male flower from one plant, touch it to make sure it's shedding pollen, and then rip it off, tear off the petals, and rub it against a female stigma from another plant. Female flowers have a mini squash at the base of the flower (ovary) and male flowers have none, plus they shed pollen.
Sometimes plants abort because of resource issues. Too much nitrogen can trigger vegetative growth over fruiting. Too little of something like
water can limit reproductive output and could lead to abortion potentially.
I had a couple moschata (same species as Dickinson pumpkin) plants on the edge of my patch that didn't get watered well because of a dry farming tomatoes experiment adjacent that only produced male flowers last summer. Watered patch was very productive though.
Western Montana gardener and botanist in zone 6a according to 2012 zone update.
Gardening on lakebed sediments with 7 inch silty clay loam topsoil, 7 inch clay accumulation layer underneath, have added sand in places.