So I've read all the composting toilet
books. ALL of them. And the greywater books. And reviews of commercial composting toilets, both self contained and chambered. Many, many reviews.
And the thing I keep coming back to is
pee. (I know Joe Jenkins suggests just mixing them, but I've already ruled that out. Just based on potty training two kiddos, I know the smell is too gross when mixed.)
From what I've been able to gather from reading, most composting toilet systems do fine with
poop. The problem is that they get overloaded with pee, especially if there are parties or visitors. Many composting toilets even have an emergency valve or tube to deal with this.
Now, I have some time to figure this out. We are in underwriting right now to buy a house (on 24 acres! plus garage and derelict barn! woodlot and orchard and hayfield! can you tell I'm excited?!) that has a septic system in place, but the septic is going to need to be replaced in 3-5 years. Needless to say, that ain't gonna happen.
What I'm thinking is that I'm going to have the husband install a waterless urinal in the bathroom right away. They are between $200 and $300. I'm going to buy GoGirls for myself and my daughter, and a stack of PMates for female guests. In my
experience, men will use a urinal if one is at all available, and I think the occasional terrified female guest will not be too much pee for a composting toilet to cope with.
Then, also in short order, we are going to build an
outhouse that has a sort of cold frame type thing on the south facing side, to accelerate composting. And plant a willow nearby. An amalgam of several good ideas I've seen kicking around.
Then, I'm thinking I'm just gonna drop the cash (I know, I know) and get a self contained SunMar. Worst case scenario, if I need to empty it, I'll have a good place to do so: in the outhouse.
Down the road awhile, I want to build a separate bath house (with
wood fired Japanese soaking tub, and a
shower, and a sauna, that's connected to the main house via a radiant heated
greenhouse) and in that, experiment with a homebuilt composting toilet, that includes either a separating toilet seat or another waterless urinal.
My questions are as follows:
-once we have achieved septic independence, can/should we route the pee from the urinal into the greywater/dry well system? This will be irrigating plants, so I'd like to be able to use that diluted nitrogen. I can find no resource that says this is either a good or bad idea.
-is there any reason I
should just use a separating toilet seat? I'm leaning hard toward the waterless urinal because
I don't want to haul containers of pee out of my house, and because either way (separating toilet seat or waterless urinal) I'm going to have to teach one sex to do things differently, and more women (at least , those that I know) are eager to learn to pee standing up than men are to learn to sit down and aim.
-is there any reason that I should get the electric SunMar if it's primarily for poop and just some incidental, pre-pooping pee + occasional, terrified female guest pee?
-has anyone done anything like this?
What we have going for us:
-we have installed and tweaked a greywater system at our current house
-my husband is good lay-plumber
-we both are not at all freaked out by potty issuesS
-I've build an outhouse and my husband has built two
In closing, please advise!