Hi Joe,
This patina is a challenge to achieve without the passage of time. I have done it with much experimentation with natural oils and some stains, (depending on the species.) One method, (does involve time,) is to allow it to gray naturally, then use one of the commercial "brightening" agents used in the log home industry. Once this is complete and any residual chemicals removed and/or oxidized, use a traditional oil treatment with a borate additive to protect from UV destabilization. I have been using a product know as "landark" for several decades to good success. Some of the nicer colored structures had been treated with oil and creosote, unfortunately that would smell really bad for some time and be of a health concern. Good luck
Regards,
Jay