47 Poly gender fluid woman interested in ltr in NY

Pansexual, polyamorous, kinky switch interested in making a possible connection with a fellow permie.  I am an artist, activist, photographer, socialist and lyme survivor, working on getting rolling on 20 acres in upstate NY.  Mostly looking for fellow delightful weirdos, especially if they make me laugh.  Drawn to kindness, brilliance, inner strength and goofiness.  I have ADHD, and I am not thin.  Allergic to smokers and many fragrances among other things, and looking for someone who will respect my health needs and disabilities who is open to possibly being a nesting partner, or at least a neighbor and partner some day if things work out.  Married almost 20 years (but normally date separately).  Poly my whole adult life, often with multiple nesting partners living with me.  I don't have kids, but love them.  I don't date people who vote in ways that jeopardize my existence.  If you might be interested, let's talk.