posted 11 years ago
It's hard to diagnose the problem without a clear description, but try to review the process and try again. The biggest factor during fermentation as well as storage is that the veggies be submerged. When they start to discolor in the fridge, that suggests a mostly empty jar with lots of air space. A strategy for lengthening the life of your kraut would be to consolidate into a smaller jar and press down to submerge. Discoloration and funky growth comes from oxygen. Protected from oxygen, in a cool spot, mature kraut can last for years.
As for the difference between fermented and rotted, generally the biggest difference is intention. It's a ferment when the changes are desired and intended, rotten when not. There are man fermented foods eaten around the world that people who have never encountered them would generally reject as rotten, such as buried fish in the Arctic, surstromming in Sweden, stinky tofu, natto, strong ripe cheeses.... There is a large component of cultural relativism in our distinctions between fermented and rotten, and no sharp scientific line.