Hi Leeanne;
Sorry for the delay. Yes , you can build on top of an existing slab and insulate between, same as Eric has done. Originaly rmh's were a long mass, current rocket science has options, including bells and ceramic fiber boards and blanket. You will want to do a lot of reading here and at the Donkey pro boards for the latest innovations.
Yes, treat your core and barrel like a
wood stove. Only the barrel will be at super hot temps, mine can run 1100 F on top and the sides average in the 500 F range , the core outside temps generally stay below 200 F on my stove. The mass only needs a min of 4" insulation from an outside wall . Outside temp on the mass will be around 100-150 F . Your stove pipe where it leaves your mass will be apx. 130 F The feed tube should be protected from wood areas as can be.
As far as seminars, Most get advertised here at permies. Ernie and Erica Wisner are in the okanogan valley just over the mountain from you. They are recognized leaders in rmh building and design innovation. Their book " The
Rocket mass heater builders guide" Is the current best book to own if you plan on building a rmh.(readily available on amazon) They also would be the best place for you to find a
class being put on. Erica could be reached with a purple moosage here thru permies.