*sigh*
Well, I didn't expect to find myself here this evening, but my current experience is causing significant enough confusion that I figure I should care enough to provide some feedback to you folks who have invested your energy into trying to hold this place together.
(Thanks for that, by the way... really.)
So anyway, I'm not going to try to argue that the post that brought me here was especially well written or didn't need to be edited. I already acknowledged in a prior post that I was frustrated and let that get the better of me and come out in ways it probably shouldn't have.
I am admittedly still a little confused at the parts of the post which were chosen to take issue with and the level of issue it has become... and most of all confused by the fact that I received a message telling me that I had the opportunity to edit the post to correct the problem, and yet when I attempted to do that the post/thread is locked?
I am also a little... fascinated I guess? By the fact that in the message I was told to "drop the snotty quotes" from around a word which it says was particularly hostile. Even looking back and acknowledging that I should have been more cordial, while I would be more than willing to edit that word if required, that is NOT one of the points in the post where I felt like my frustration got away from me - I meant nothing hostile by it AT ALL. And so for the response to be told that I was using "snotty quotes" feels, well, let's just call it snotty.
Again, I would have been willing to edit that part of the post if given the chance, and actually agree that other parts probably would have benefited from it. But I question the practice of throwing back labels like "snotty quotes" when that seems like exactly the type of practice you're trying to curb here. (Right?)
Anyway, like I said, as tempting as it is to explain "my side" of the situation, I can't really claim to have handled it well. I truly wish both sides had, because I genuinely wanted to have an honest discussion and felt frustrated when it wasn't happening.
But the reason I'm here is that it just felt pretty odd to get called snotty by an auto-mod message telling me to go edit my post which I can't seem to edit or reply to.
Like some kind of really weird Permie-Rick-Roll...
🎶Never gonna till you up... Always gonna mulch you down...🎶