Hey Ned
Thanks for watching and good questions/comments about the work parties.
It certainly doesn't hurt to be good at throwing parties but not necessary... luckily me and Matt live in a pretty cool small community where there's a lot of alternative building going on. Everything from Earthships, Strawbales, Earthbags, rammed Earth, just to name a few. So being around others in a small area all doing similar things kinda help you work with each other and live closely verses more populated areas let alone cites where you might not even know your neighbors. Earthship Biotecture and Michael Reynolds who founded Earthships in Taos, NM (just 2 hours away from us) had a similar situation over the years. A lot of people wanting to build alternatively in small rural areas...
We all work jobs and have regular schedules and lives as well... but there's always the weekends! Some people like to go out to dinner or watch sports with there friends and others like to live off grid and live a life style that let's you help your crazy neighbors build alternative houses! haha I guess you gotta be crazy to want to pound all those tires anyways!
Either way thanks for the thoughtful question and hope some of my explanation helps! You're certainly right though... a lot of people aren't in positions to have "work parties" with friends doing similar things so for that I feel extremely grateful.
-Pete