Bri Cierp

Bj Murrey wrote:BRI - perhaps take more time to get to know the person?

I know all humans are evil. Some work on themselves to overcome it. But all - as in 100% - are controlled by their thoughts , feelings , and emotions until they begin to realize they never created a single thought of their own. Ever notice how they just appear out of nowhere?

It seems to me, beginning here, and then only developing depth with the few who are clearly working on themselves, will at least be less heartache.

Also, the chatter of getting to know (you never truly know another person ) someone, is essential in discovering early what kind of person you're speaking to. Are they a yes man? Realistic or naive? What "triggers" them, what interests them...
Etc

You have the rest of your life to spend with a good man. Take time now, before you get too involved, to make sure you're actually dealing with one, instead of a Temu-knockoff version, or a sociopath who knows how to conceal it while feeding your optimism.

What a world we live in!

All the best!

That person was not the right person for me. I need a provider with shared interests and goals. He ended up being a child who wanted a mommy. Then ended up being a stalker. I already raised two amazing children. I would rather have my solitude.

You could try Michigan :) there’s a pretty cool group of historic preservationists here.

Bri Cierp wrote:

Bri Cierp wrote:Some say the world is on the brink of collapse, while others believe we’re stepping into a golden era. But where are the ones who live in the moment, who grasp that in the end, it’s not the chaos or the triumphs that matter? It’s the kindness we offer, the hearts we touch, the way we leave this world better than we found it.

I’m not sure what exactly I’m searching for, but I know I’m not content with where I am. There’s a longing for something deeper, something more intentional. I’ve walked this path before, seen the same routines, the same empty answers. I’m still searching for my tribe—the people who understand what it means to live with purpose.

I might not have the perfect words to describe who I am, but I believe that’s something best discovered through conversation. If you’re someone who wants to connect on a real, human level, to explore what’s beyond the surface, let’s chat.

An uptick in activity has me wanting to make an update: Happy to report that I finally found what I am looking for. My tribe and my person.

Welp. Still have the tribe. The person ended up taking their mask off. So I guess that means I’m still a permies single….

Bri Cierp wrote:Some say the world is on the brink of collapse, while others believe we’re stepping into a golden era. But where are the ones who live in the moment, who grasp that in the end, it’s not the chaos or the triumphs that matter? It’s the kindness we offer, the hearts we touch, the way we leave this world better than we found it.

I’m not sure what exactly I’m searching for, but I know I’m not content with where I am. There’s a longing for something deeper, something more intentional. I’ve walked this path before, seen the same routines, the same empty answers. I’m still searching for my tribe—the people who understand what it means to live with purpose.

I might not have the perfect words to describe who I am, but I believe that’s something best discovered through conversation. If you’re someone who wants to connect on a real, human level, to explore what’s beyond the surface, let’s chat.

An uptick in activity has me wanting to make an update: Happy to report that I finally found what I am looking for. My tribe and my person.

Dez Choi wrote:Hey B
What matters a lot these days for you?
these days health and faith seem to call out to me with a certain reverb..
Z

Connection despite differences. Showing up in this world with kindness and intention. Service to others. Sunshine and clean air. Smiling.

Chris Daneker wrote:Don't worry about the politicians and the media. Its unfortunate but in 2025, you can only truly trust your eyes. Set your foundation to provide food year round and become off grid, self sufficient and the rest won't really matter anyway. I recommend earthships for the sake of relatively low maintenance and ability to produce plenty of food and water. Hope that helps! Stay blessed

I am not sure you understood the intention of my post.

larry kidd wrote:

Bri Cierp wrote:Some say the world is on the brink of collapse, while others believe we’re stepping into a golden era. But where are the ones who live in the moment, who grasp that in the end, it’s not the chaos or the triumphs that matter? It’s the kindness we offer, the hearts we touch, the way we leave this world better than we found it.

I’m not sure what exactly I’m searching for, but I know I’m not content with where I am. There’s a longing for something deeper, something more intentional. I’ve walked this path before, seen the same routines, the same empty answers. I’m still searching for my tribe—the people who understand what it means to live with purpose.

I might not have the perfect words to describe who I am, but I believe that’s something best discovered through conversation. If you’re someone who wants to connect on a real, human level, to explore what’s beyond the surface, let’s chat.

  There are many of us living close with nature and shy on people. We have few friends but they are true friends (family). When we do run across the right type they become family as well. Often times the family we gather is much better than the one we are born to!

Good luck!!!

Well if some of you nature dwellers could just peek out of your hidey holes once in a while, that would be great 😆😆

No, but for real- I know. I also feel like the free thinking environmentalists are a dying breed- I know, because I am one. I also know all about chosen family. That said, now is a time in my life where I want someone to choose me, though.

Sixela Trauts wrote:When I read the title of the thread, I said to myself mites is what's on a chicken's 🫏

Unfortunately, I am also an INFJ. Taken the test many times, hoping it would change. Nope. Has been difficult to find my people, as I am rarely in people shape, but the few that I've got I certainly cherish.

Long since given up on dating, but it's good to see so many similar personalities in one place! Not that I'm opposed to dating, just simply tired of being another's spiritual rehab or karma. I've got more energy for what fulfills me when I'm not in a romantic relationship, so I'm not eager to give up that peace.

Thank yall for the memes and for existing.

Me too!! Just sayin’
Don’ say unfortunately! INFJ are the most rare of the bunch.  We are feelers who simply process the world differently- gotta stick together

Some say the world is on the brink of collapse, while others believe we’re stepping into a golden era. But where are the ones who live in the moment, who grasp that in the end, it’s not the chaos or the triumphs that matter? It’s the kindness we offer, the hearts we touch, the way we leave this world better than we found it.

I’m not sure what exactly I’m searching for, but I know I’m not content with where I am. There’s a longing for something deeper, something more intentional. I’ve walked this path before, seen the same routines, the same empty answers. I’m still searching for my tribe—the people who understand what it means to live with purpose.

I might not have the perfect words to describe who I am, but I believe that’s something best discovered through conversation. If you’re someone who wants to connect on a real, human level, to explore what’s beyond the surface, let’s chat.

There is a thread here from 10 years ago, asking pretty much the same thing- but- wondering where all the Michigan permies are?

I am at an age where it feels simply impossible to make new friends who have the same interests and values as me. I'm a 37 year old mother of two, partnered, who lives in the urban center of Lansing.  I'm interested in one day having a landshare up north somewhere with likeminded folks, where we can use the space as a community and/or as a private get-away when needed. I have some property here that I do my best to garden, but I feel so alone when it comes to so many of my endeavors. I need a tribe!  
What about the rest of you Michigan folks?