M Wilcox

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Wanted a homestead all my life, collected scads of necessary skills & education, met a woman with a similar dream, we're finally moving to a farm to build our homestead. It's never too late til you're dead!
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[quote=tuffy monteverdi]

I get the impression there isn’t much lather there though? (Not that I need a huge lather, just enough to clean my hands).
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Ok, i’m not sure if the following link will work, but I hope so. There’s a channel on YouTube called Soap School. That’s where I got this from. So if this link doesn’t work, go to YouTube and search for soap school. The video is called how to make soap out of lard.

https://homestead.noredfarms.com/soap-making-guide

Now, she’s using pure lard, but I didn’t. I just used whatever fat I had saved from the kitchen, whether it was beef fat or pig, fat or bacon grease or used cooking oil or whatever. And it turned out great. It makes a very fine lather (tiny bubbles) not a big lather. She says it has a very creamy consistency when used, but it is hard so it doesn’t just melt like some commercial soaps do. She says if you want more lather, you should use part coconut oil. She doesn’t give a proportion though.
1 week ago

tuffy monteverdi wrote:

M Wilcox wrote:
Is your water by chance somewhat hard?
If so, and if you still have the recipe, can you link me or copy & paste here, the exact recipe you used?

Thank you so much 🙏



Yes, my water was hard. I found a YouTube video that uses the same recipe I used. It’s so very simple, just three ingredients unless you want to add herbs or essential oils. The most important thing to know is to not use any aluminum pans or utensils. Use stainless steel, plastic, or unchipped enamel containers and utensils. Molds can be anything as long as they’re not aluminum. Like I said, I just used a cookie sheet, which I should have put parchment paper on I think. Anyway, I tried to post a link, but it wouldn’t upload. I went to Google and searched vintage soap recipe, and I got a YouTube video with an older lady showing you step-by-step how to do it. She’s British so you’ll know you got the right one.

2 weeks ago

Derek Thille wrote:
I would love to be able to have actual discussions rather than arguments over what is "right” or “wrong.”



Thank you for this well reasoned and intelligent response. I can’t argue with anything you’ve said. Thank you for putting so many things into reasonable perspective.

Deb Stephens wrote:I am another one who really wants a soapmaking forum, so here is my contribution to the cause.



I remember my first batch of soap back in the '70s. I found a recipe in the Mother Earth News. I started saving fat from all of my cooking. Bacon grease, ground beef grease, used deep frying oil, any kind of food grade oil or grease. I kept it sealed in salvaged glass jars in the garage until I had enough.
I very carefully followed the recipe. Per the instructions, I put all the grease into a great big canning pot with some water and vinegar, and boiled it for a long time outside on the back porch with a hot plate. Then I put the pot in the fridge to solidify the grease. I used a knife to separate the grease block from the pot, flipped over the cake of grease and scraped off all the crud. Then I had nice, clean grease for my project.
In those days, you could buy just plain old lye in the grocery store. People used it to clear their clogged drains.
I did all the ingredient mixing on the back patio to keep fumes and possible splashing lye out of the house. I'm very sensitive to smells, so I didn't put any essential oils in it. However I did want it to be pretty, so I threw in a block of candle color. I don't know if that was a good idea, but I ended up with beautiful pink swirly soap.
When the soap was ready to mold, I just poured it all onto a cookie sheet lined with wax paper. Not a good idea. Parchment might have been better.
When it was sort of set up but still somewhat soft, I used a butcher knife to cut it into blocks. No fancy molds for me!
Anyway, it turned out great. I wasn't sure how long to let it sit before using it, so I let it sit for a few months.
I'm not kidding, that one batch of soap lasted me for years.
It was fun, and useful, and the first/last time I ever made soap. I was really Susie Homemaker in those days. I always wanted to make another batch but somehow there was always something new to try; making my own tofu, making my own bread, making my own cottage cheese, sewing all the kids' clothes, baking, having babies, church obligations, etc.
Oh well, my one soap-making experience was fun and successful.
2 weeks ago

C. West wrote: my question is if I use it and drain the waste water onto my land, will it affect my trees, soil or well water?



I have similar concerns regarding my own homestead. I wondered if having my gray water go through a biosand filter would mitigate any problems with what's in the gray water. Biosand filters are not complicated or expensive to build.
We have a USDA office near us that will do water testing for cheap, so I was thinking of taking a sample of the water coming out of the biosand filter and having it tested. I think it's about $12 to have it done.
I've heard that biosand filters are really at their best after they've been running for a while, giving the microbiome a chance to become established.
2 weeks ago

M Wilcox wrote: I know this all sounds very "woo-woo" but no other advice you receive will help one bit until you light that undying flame of "Nothing Will Stand Between Me and My Dream."



Fast forward 6 years. My wife and I found a one-acre property that we loved and managed to buy it. We raised amazing permie gardens, lived off-grid using solar and propane, raised chickens, did building projects, etc.
Unfortunately, my wife suffers from mental illness, and we reached a point where we had to part. So now our homestead is for sale, because she couldn't handle the whole thing alone, and I'm getting up in years and would need help with it as well.

Now, if there's anyone out there that's longing for an off-grid permie homestead, here's your opportunity. We are willing to do a lease-option, rent-to-own or similar. Hit me up.
3 months ago
For rent: A sweet, small, one-bedroom home in the Upstate NY woods. It's extremely secluded (we sometimes garden in the buff), off-grid, with owned solar panels and brand new LiFePo4 battery bank, and a brand new backup propane generator (hooked up to our giant, permanent propane tank).
It's 5 minutes from a small town, 15 minutes to a bigger town, 20 minutes to an even bigger town, and 40 minutes to Saratoga Springs (of horse racing fame), Bennington Vt and Queensbury NY (has every store you need for shopping),

There's a sizable shed for yard tools, chicken feed, gardening supplies, etc, and a lean-to built on the back for building supplies or outdoor storage. We've got lots of building supplies that we will leave for your projects. There's a sunporch/ greenhouse addition being built out from the covered porch that needs to be finished, but most of the supplies are present to do it. The greenhouse is going to give you a huge head start on spring planting, and also give you an outdoor feel in the winter for smoking or hanging out with friends (no smoking in the house).

There's room for another shed if you want to put one up (there's already a shed kit here, waiting to be built), for a few goats or additional storage. The neighbors on the right are rarely there and have agreed to let us pasture our goats there to help keep the brush and weeds down, but we never got the goats because life intervened. I'm pretty sure they would make the same deal with renters.

There 's a chicken house, a fenced chicken yard and enclosed, sheltered chicken run for bad weather.

There are two large garden areas with trellises, raised beds and terraced beds. We also have multiple grow bags that we will leave. Growing cannabis is legal here, and we've grown successfully for 3 years. Fruit trees include hardy fig, dwarf Lapin cherry, dwarf mulberry, elderberry. Established grapevine, raspberries, blueberries and a red currant that makes amazing jam (well, YOU have to make it, the bush doesn't do it spontaneously). Established herb beds and prolific, sweet strawberry bed that come back every year on their own. Tulips, daffodils, lilies, catnip, irises, more, already established and come back each year.

There's a 400 ft deep well, and we have never come CLOSE to running out of water. Never any sediment, etc. We have a septic tank, but we haven't had to pump it for the 6 years we've been here. We use a combo of composting toilet and utilizing urine for fertilizer to keep from filling up the septic tank, so it has time to empty on its own. We DO use the upstairs bathroom, just not as much. We recommend putting in a grey-water system to further spare the septic. We meant to, but never got around to it.

The woods provide plenty of deadfall wood for kindling for the wood stove and logs for hugelkultur. Also, edible mushrooms grow in our woods at the right times of year (KNOW YOUR MUSHROOMS! We take no responsibility).

Our neighbor on the left (through dense woods, not visible from our property) currently plows us out in the winter, but not for free. He's super-nice and will make you a good deal. His wife is willing to help support your chickens in exchange for eggs.
Our neighbor near the road (also not visible from our house) has a horse farm with an endless pile of aged manure for your fertilizing needs. You can shovel and haul it yourself for free (after establishing friendly relations) or she may be willing to load your truck or trailer with her tractor for a fee.

1/2 a block from the end of our access road, there's a regularly-replenished pile of free wood chips for making garden paths, mulching, mushroom substrate, etc. and a little further on, a mountain of free sand for filling potholes on the access road or whatever you need sand for.

Behind the property are 30 acres of woods full of deer and wild turkey, if you're a hunter. We're not, but people hunt there every year, and we've never had trouble with hunters' bullets going astray or whatnot. You just need to get permission from the landowner, but it doesn't seem hard to do, based on the amount of hunting that goes on there.

We encourage any person or couple (not suitable for kids) to try your permie experiments here--just keep it permie and don't use chemical pesticides or fertilizers, and do a good job. This is a great place to start out and see if the off-grid life is for you. We love it here, but we're moving to be closer to my daughter, who is having health struggles, and to my granddaughter.

Now for the somewhat challenging aspects: the property is on a slope, hence the terracing. The largest gardening area is not terribly sloped and the smaller one is level. There's a steeper slope behind the house, which limits its usefulness. We thought it might be a good place for a couple pigs, if properly fenced. Another thing we didn't get to.

The driveway is steep-ish and requires an AWD/4WD vehicle to get up it in the snow or ice. Before we got an AWD, we parked at the bottom and walked up. Helpful hint: save ashes from the wood stove for icy conditions. They work great for providing traction for feet and tires! Also good for the soil in small amounts.

The property is on a shale bed, so there's not a lot of naturally-occurring topsoil for planting. However, there's a reasonably-priced service that will deliver a truckload of topsoil and compost, which we've used liberally, filling in our terraces, raised beds and planting bags. We've augmented that with our own garden /chicken manure compost from our permanent compost bin that we've built. One surprising benefit of the rock layer is that we have no problems with burrowing animals like groundhogs, which generally devastate gardens in our region.

The house is strictly wood-heated. There's not enough off-grid electricity for space heaters, and propane heaters will cost you a bundle in propane. So, firewood will be an expense. We'll probably leave a lot behind to get you started.

The previous owners never put in flooring, so it's concrete. You could put in flooring if you want, but we've found that we track in so much dirt that we're better off with concrete because any nice flooring would get ruined. Once the greenhouse is done though, it can be a buffer from the outside and you can take off your shoes before entering. Then flooring might be feasible.

The house is about a 600 sq ft footprint. It's got a loft upstairs  (200 sq ft?) with a bedroom and bathroom (just one). So it's small.  The only door in the house is the one to the bathroom, a barn door. So there's no way to retreat from your partner and slam the door if you get in a fight. It's a lot of togetherness. When I need time to myself, I go to the car.

It's necessary to watch your power expenditure. We don't have many electric appliances, and things like microwaves and dishwashers are probably not in the cards. We actually turn off the power at night. and charge our devices during the day. We charge solar lights (which we will leave for you) outside and bring them in at night, plus we have battery-powered motion-activated lights inside for moving around after lights-out. We'll leave those plus the rechargeable batteries and charger. I have run high-energy stuff like power tools at midday when the batteries get replenished as I use them, and we'll also leave a gas generator behind for such things.

The fridge is propane and apartment-sized (much bigger than a mini fridge). You have to adjust the temp to the weather. In winter it will freeze if you don't, and on hot days, stuff won't stay quite as cold. Again, not enough power for an electric fridge or freezer. You could install more panels and batteries if you want to expand your energy-use options.

It gets hot inside for several days a year. No AC. If it's really hot, we go to the river 1/2 a mile away, or go shopping or to the library.

There's a little apartment-size washer with super-useful spinner that gets most of the water out of the clothes, but the machine isn't good for bedding or muddy farm clothes, so the laundromat is your friend.

We only get satellite internet, which isn't probably fast enough for work-at-home situations. However, the library is only 5 minutes away, and has high-speed internet.

As with any untamed forest, there are predators like eagles, hawks, owls, weasles, bobcats, coyote-wolf hybrids, bear (it seems like just one, actually). We've beefed up our chicken yard and it's stopped almost all predation on the chickens, but if you let chooks roam the property all day, you may lose a few. Goats must be locked up for the night. Pigs are usually ok with a simple shelter for the night. We've never lost a cat to a predator, though--or to traffic, because the road is distant and not a high-traffic thoroughfare.

So anyway, we'd like to rent the homestead. A one-bedroom apartment around here is anywhere from $950 on up. You can have an entire extremely-private homestead with established gardens and freedom to experiment, grow whatever, run around naked, etc, but near all services and shops, for only $1600 a month. If you love it after you've been here a while, we can talk about owner-financed purchase or lease-option.

Zillow link is what it looked like before we happened to it. https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/292-Rexleigh-Rd-Salem-NY-12865/216017872_zpid/
Now, most of the yard is taken up with fenced garden.
6 months ago
For rent: A sweet, small, one-bedroom home in the Upstate NY woods. It's extremely secluded (we sometimes garden in the buff), off-grid, with owned solar panels and brand new LiFePo4 battery bank, and a brand new backup propane generator (hooked up to our giant, permanent propane tank).
It's 5 minutes from a small town, 15 minutes to a bigger town, 20 minutes to an even bigger town, and 40 minutes to Saratoga Springs (of horse racing fame), Bennington Vt and Queensbury NY (has every store you need for shopping),

There's a sizable shed for yard tools, chicken feed, gardening supplies, etc, and a lean-to built on the back for building supplies or outdoor storage. We've got lots of building supplies that we will leave for your projects. There's a sunporch/ greenhouse addition being built out from the covered porch that needs to be finished, but most of the supplies are present to do it. The greenhouse is going to give you a huge head start on spring planting, and also give you an outdoor feel in the winter for smoking or hanging out with friends (no smoking in the house).

There's room for another shed if you want to put one up, for a few goats or additional storage. The neighbors  on the right are rarely there and have agreed to let us pasture our goats there to help keep the brush and weeds down, but we never got the goats because life intervened. I'm pretty sure they would make the same deal with renters.

There 's a chicken house, a fenced chicken yard and enclosed, sheltered chicken run for bad weather.

There are two large garden areas with trellises, raised beds and terraced beds. We also have multiple grow bags that we will leave. Growing cannabis is legal here, and we've grown successfully for 3 years. Fruit trees include hardy fig, dwarf Lapin cherry, dwarf mulberry, elderberry. Established raspberry, blueberries and a red currant that makes amazing jam (well, YOU have to make it, the bush doesn't do it spontaneously). Established herb beds and huge strawberry bed that come back every year on their own.

There's a 400 ft deep well, and we have never come CLOSE to running out of water. Never any sediment, etc. We have a septic tank, but we haven't had to pump it for the 6 years we've been here. We use a combo of composting toilet and utilizing urine for fertilizer to keep from filling up the septic tank, so it has time to empty on its own. We DO use the upstairs bathroom, just not as much. We recommend putting in a grey-water system to further spare the septic. We meant to, but never got around to it.

The woods provide plenty of deadfall wood for kindling for the wood stove and logs for hugelkultur. Also, edible mushrooms grow in our woods at the right times of year (KNOW YOUR MUSHROOMS! We take no responsibility).

1/2 a block from the end of our access road, there's a regularly-replenished pile of free wood chips for making garden paths, mulching, mushroom substrate, etc. and a little further on, a mountain of free sand for filling potholes on the access road or whatever you need sand for.

We encourage any person or couple (not suitable for kids) to try your permie experiments here--just keep it permie and don't use chemical pesticides or fertilizers, and do a good job. This is a great place to start out and see if the off-grid life is for you. We love it here, but we're moving to be closer to my daughter, who is having health struggles, and to my granddaughter.

Now for the somewhat challenging aspects: the property is on a slope, hence the terracing. The largest gardening area is not terribly sloped and the smaller one is level. There's a steeper slope behind the house, which limits its usefulness. We thought it might be a good place for a couple pigs, if properly fenced. Another thing we didn't get to.
The driveway is steep-ish and requires an AWD/4WD vehicle to get up it in the snow or ice. Before we got an AWD, we parked at the bottom and walked up. Helpful hint: save ashes from the wood stove for icy conditions. They work great for providing traction for feet and tires! Also good for the soil in small amounts.

The property is on a shale bed, so there's not a lot of naturally-occurring topsoil for planting. However, there's a reasonably-priced service that will deliver a truckload of topsoil and compost, which we've used liberally, filling in our terraces, raised beds and planting bags. We've augmented that with our own garden /chicken manure compost from our permanent compost bin that we've built. One surprising benefit of the rock layer is that we have no problems with burrowing animals like groundhogs, which generally devastate gardens in our region.

The house is strictly wood-heated. There's not enough off-grid electricity for space heaters, and propane heaters will cost you a bundle in propane. So, firewood will be an expense. We'll probably leave a lot behind to get you started.

The previous owners never put in flooring, so it's concrete. You could put in flooring if you want, but we've found that we track in so much dirt that we're better off with concrete because any nice flooring would get ruined. Once the greenhouse is done though, it can be a buffer from the outside and you can take off your shoes before entering. Then flooring might be feasible.

The house is about a 600 sq ft footprint. It's got a loft upstairs  (200 sq ft?) with a bedroom and bathroom (just one). So it's small.  The only door in the house is the one to the bathroom, a barn door. So there's no way to retreat from your partner and slam the door if you get in a fight. It's a lot of togetherness. When I need time to myself, I go to the car.

It's necessary to watch your power expenditure. We don't have many electric appliances, and things like microwaves and dishwashers are probably not in the cards. We actually turn off the power at night. and charge our devices during the day. We charge solar lights (which we will leave for you) outside and bring them in at night, plus we have battery-powered motion-activated lights inside for moving around after lights-out. We'll leave those plus the rechargeable batteries and charger. I have run high-energy stuff like power tools at midday when the batteries get replenished as I use them, and we'll also leave a gas generator behind for such things.

The fridge is propane and apartment-sized (much bigger than a mini fridge). You have to adjust the temp to the weather. In winter it will freeze if you don't, and on hot days, stuff won't stay quite as cold. Again, not enough power for an electric fridge or freezer. You could install more panels and batteries if you want to expand your energy-use options.

It gets hot inside for several days a year. No AC. If it's really hot, we go to the river 1/2 a mile away, or go shopping or to the library.

There's a little apartment-size washer with super-useful spinner that gets most of the water out of the clothes, but the machine isn't good for bedding or muddy farm clothes, so the laundromat is your friend.

We only get satellite internet, which isn't probably fast enough for work-at-home situations. However, the library is only 5 minutes away, and has high-speed internet.

Our neighbor on the left (through dense woods, not visible from our property) currently plows us out in the winter, but not for free. He's super-nice and will make you a good deal. His wife is willing to help support your chickens in exchange for eggs.Our neighbor on the right (also not visible from our house) has a horse farm with an endless pile of aged manure for your fertilizing needs. You can shovel and haul it yourself for free (after establishing friendly relations) or she may be willing to load your truck or trailer with her tractor for a fee.

So anyway, we'd like to rent the homestead. A one-bedroom apartment around here is anywhere from $950 on up. You can have an entire extremely-private homestead with established gardens and freedom to experiment, grow whatever, run around naked, etc. for $1500 a month. If you love it after you've been here a while, we can talk about owner-financed purchase or lease-option.

Zillow link is what it looked like before we happened to it. https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/292-Rexleigh-Rd-Salem-NY-12865/216017872_zpid/
Now, most of the yard is taken up with fenced garden.
11 months ago

John F Dean wrote:Has anyone here had experience using a hand cranked blender… such as the ones sold at Lehman’s?



I had a hand-crank food processor that would also whip cream and egg whites (in literal seconds). It was a Tupperware brand device. I absolutely loved it! It worked better than any electric food processor I'd ever had--until the plastic gears broke. I was seriously tempted to get a machinist to fabricate me a metal gear assembly so I could keep using it for as long as the housing and accessories lasted.
Not a blender, but would work for most things you'd put in a blender.
1 year ago

Tony Hawkins wrote:

She really just didn't know a lot of things that I do, and likewise I didn't know about things she did. She didn't know how much work went into certain parts of our home and when she saw that we realized that we're probably about 50/50 already. But there were certain things that were pain-in-the-butt for her, that I really don't have a problem with, so I picked up some of those too because why not?



Thanks Tony. This was part of the problem. She just wasn't realizing everything that I have to do, and she was actually kind of depressed at the time which really sapped her energy to do anything else.
Things have actually reversed now. She suddenly realized that she enjoys doing things outside. She has pretty much taken over the gardening and feeding the chickens. She also has stacked a lot of wood and hauled a lot of wood. I, on the other hand, I'm now the depressed one and can't do as much. I pretty much go to work and come home and help out with things here and there but she does the majority of the work now.
Things all worked out. Sooner or later I will get my energy back and then maybe things will be more equal.
1 year ago