J I'm so sorry you had a crummy year. Unfortunately it's just happens that way sometimes, but don't give up. 2024 was the year of the pest for me. I built cages, and draped netting over my veggies. It was a pain, but at least I got veggies.
2025 I learned to trust myself. I've been gardening for as long time. I'm not an expert, but I feel I'm a pretty good gardener, with lots of room for improvement. I like to let nature keep the balance in check.
For some reason this year I discovered stink bugs. I kinda freaked out. I was on the internet trying to figure out what to do, I made a trap, and was out there every night picking them off the plants. At some point I realized I was making myself crazy, and stopped. This may be the first time I'm seeing stink bugs, but thinking back, I probably had them before, and just didn't investigate the problem. eventually the problem fixed itself. Just like it did this year.
A tomato plant died unexpectedly, again I overreacted. I was sure I was over watering, and changed all my watering, which lead to a lot more problems.
An early, and severe aphid attack started to send me into the freakout zone. It was the worst I have dealt with in a long time. It must be the weather, or something because everyone is saying the same. Anyway I seriously considered spraying some organic pesticides, for a minute anyway. I ended up spraying them off with water, and buying ladybugs. It took a while, but the ladybugs are winning, and plants are recovering nicely.
I learned that even though it's great to learn new things, and try different techniques, I also have to trust myself, and hold true to my beliefs. 2025, was a pretty crappy year in the garden, mostly self inflicted. The last couple of years have been a real struggle, so I hope I've learned to stop stressing about what's going wrong, and enjoy what is going right.