Aurora Maville

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I’m a reluctant academic, a soft-spoken person with a calm disposition, and mom to a ginger tabby who considers himself a fellow gardener. I’ve lived in the city for ages now, though not always. I grew up in a fishing and homesteading community surrounded by artisans, and I deeply miss the quiet, unhurried rhythm of that way of life.

I love gardening, visiting farmers markets, poetry, thrifting, antiquing, watching movies, DIY and crafts, folklore, and old, worn, or abandoned things, particularly the stories those objects carry.

I work with kids, and they are truly a joy to be around. I’m happiest whenever I’m outdoors, climbing trees, exploring mountains, or hiking. It often turns into stopping to notice and pluck plants, collect moss, fungi, and stones. I’m (slowly) learning to resist the urge to bring the whole forest home with me.

When I’m not doing all of this, I find myself imagining trading Los Angeles city pavement for a more rooted, hermit life on a patch of soil somewhere lush and foggy, like Scotland, France (Brittany or Normandy), or Ireland, wherever I can live gently with the land.

I’m an avid container and backyard gardener, with a particular fondness for bulb plants. I’ve become so successful with bulbs that I’m now the proud owner of a backyard bistro for the local squirrels. They are very cute guests, though I do wish they would leave a few bulbs behind as a tip.

I’m really excited to join the Permies community to become a better gardener. I want to soak up everything I can about homesteading, beekeeping, permaculture, soil building, and the many forms of slow living I’ve yet to discover, all in the hope of being kinder to the planet. I look forward to finding inspiration in fellow permies’ successes and learning moments and absorbing decades of hands-on wisdom, while sharing my own along the way.
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Molly Sue wrote:I have had a lifelong struggle. The itching is insane, no matter what method I have tried from shampooing every other day, not shampooing for a while, every day, every type of medicated shampoo out there.  Vinegar, clay, witch hazel, egg, lemon balm, tea tree oil, baking soda, salt.  Nothing works.  Except being at the beach, then it clears up after swimming in the ocean.  But salt water rinses do nothing.  I am thinking there must be an organic way to help solve this issue. Even if I cannot cure it, to keep it maintained. It has made my quality of life so very low. And even if I find a thing or two, that might work, if I miss even a day it goes right back to the misery.   Seeking help with a life long problem, any advice at all I will greatly appreciate.  I'm wanting a plant/ herbal/ or natural remedy.. do not want to spend the rest of my life going to a doctor or dermatologist to try to maintain.



I'm so sorry you're dealing with this, Molly. I can't imagine living with that kind of relentless itching for so long. I truly hope you find something that brings you some relief. I don't have the same lifelong experience, but I do struggle with an itchy scalp every summer. I’ve noticed my scalp does better when I can keep more of its natural oils, and this summer what has helped the most so far is switching to a very gentle shampoo, diluting it heavily (about 90% water and 10% shampoo), avoiding heavily scented products, and using purified water. It hasn’t completely gone away, but the itching has been much better.
I know this is different from what you’ve been experiencing, but I wanted to share in case any part of it is useful.
18 hours ago

Philip McGarvey wrote:

paul wheaton wrote:For me, a 96% solutions was to go poo-less.  

Next step - while on a different health journey it was suggested that dandruff is caused by what you eat.  



Same here.  Up to age 23 I used soap and shampoo regularly and usually had bad dandruff and stinky hair.  Then I quit shampoo and soap completely, and also improved my diet, and I have barely had any dandruff at all in the 12 years since then, and my hair smells OK according to my family who are not inclined to flatter me in this respect.

I do wash my hair with just water, and brush it, every week to few weeks.



Hmm, Philip 12 years is a long time. And smells OK? would you please describe Ok? I've heard that eventually there is a pleasant scent of either grapefruit or celery. Good to hear your poo-less jorney is working out so far.
20 hours ago

paul wheaton wrote:For me, a 96% solutions was to go poo-less.  

Next step - while on a different health journey it was suggested that dandruff is caused by what you eat.  

And the last bit, again, for a different thing, it was suggested that I needed to have more minerals through the skin.  Castor oil topically was suggested.  The idea was that i would absorb minerals and the like at night.  But man that stuff is sticky.  So - no way.  .... until i got this little cotton sleep hat.  https://amzn.to/3QlCZL8  - i put the oil on my noggin, cover with the hat and wake up with horrible bed head.    It does seem like the oil is 90% gone in the morning.  And a poo-less shower seems to take a bit more away.      Da oil https://amzn.to/3QlCZL8     I might do this every week or two.  My guess is that at some point i will stop completely.

Zero danders.

Mostly, I enjoy not smearing the dandruff shampoo goo on my head - even the highest quality stuff struck me as toxic.  It has been more than 15 years now.  I feel like it is one of the smartest things i have ever done.  

I also like that my daily shower is about a minute long rather than ten minutes long.  

The idea of ever using shampoo feels brutally unhealthy.  My current path feels extremely healthy.  I am so glad i made the change.  

I will even go so far to say:   i wonder if the anti-dandruff shampoos actually CAUSE dandruff!



Wow, and now I'm gonna go deep into a research rabbit hole on food and dandruff. Thank you Paul. Hmm, I am currious what "Da oil" is. The link for is a beanie which I could actually use too. It's encouraging to hear that the poo-less journey is going great for you so far.
20 hours ago
Aww, thank you all! These are great tips to try out. Definitely adding them to my lil garden book.
21 hours ago
Hello everyone,

I recently started propagating verbena, lemongrass, and rosemary cuttings. Really excited that the rosemary is thriving I see roots, zero mold, and it’s ready to be potted. The lemongrass and verbena have developed tiny little roots but there’s mold on the stem right above the roots or waterline. I’ve been cleaning the cups that hold them and changing the water every 2 days. I put in a little less water to not drown them and clean the mold off but days later there’s mold again. I’m in SoCal(zone 10a), it has been really hot lately. Is it the heat? Has anyone else dealt with moldy stems while rooting lemongrass or verbena in water? How did it work out for your plants? Really appreciate any suggestions you share to save these stalks.
1 day ago
I needed this and she did. Thank you Charlene
6 days ago
Oh, thank you all for sharing these. I am stealing them! Lately, my community garden has introduced me to iced tea or plain water with lemon verbena leaves and fruit (I know, plain water, so sad). But it is honestly so refreshing, and I am hooked. It has become my go to drink, especially in this California heat.
I usually throw in whatever berries I have on hand, although I recommend not going too wild since certain berry and fruit combinations with lemon verbena may trigger heartburn. Still, overall it is a really delicious summer drink.
2 weeks ago
These are such moving words. It is so powerful to realize that the tree doesn’t ask us to fix it or take care of it; it just gives so freely without ever asking for anything in return.

By springing new buds right out of its cuts, it models a resilience that reminds us healing has many forms. For a tree that has been cut so much, it doesn't erase all the scars, but instead shows us that life can still expand and bloom right alongside the wounds.

Seeing that quiet generosity has inspired me to continue giving back to nature and be part of a community that cares for it. There is something deeply fulfilling and quietly healing about giving back. Thank you for sharing this beautiful perspective.
3 weeks ago
Hello Zack,

Oh I’m so excited for you to start this journey of building and creating. I was looking for some workshops for myself in California and i have discovered that it can be tough to find all these goodies in one place. But I found some promising ones that maybe helpful to you too through:

1. https://wwoof.net/#destination

2. https://www.wildabundance.net/permaculture-courses/

As for New England, I heard these are great:

3. Cricket Creek Farm (Williamstown, Massachusetts)

4. Boston Area Gleaners Apprenticeship Program (Acton, Massachusetts)

5. JVS Boston Free Carpentry Training, free but just carpentry

6. North Atlantic States Carpenters Training Fund (NASCTF), free but just carpentry

Oh, I totally forgot, I also found some resources at my local uni and college, arts and farm center, Facebook, and my local libraries’ little gardening club

Best of luck on your search, let us know how it goes:)
Hi Garret Wray,
Thank you for sharing these moving words. They are very relatable and thus you are not entirely alone. It’s been ages since this post but I hope you are well, really did find that someone.
7 months ago