Good luck to you. I think that is cool you have the skills to do all those things. Hope you find some companionship or some peace or a good book or maybe you could write a book. I am 38 years old and gay. I have given up on trying to find a guy currently and never have been good at having relationships. I have had this dream of homesteading. I just bought some land and am closing on it on Monday. I have not lived the homesteading life. When I get the place set up and live there it will be so new to me and exciting and challenging too. Currently living the city life working, can't wait to be able to work on my terms at my own homestead and reaping the rewards then looking into the mountains drinking a cup of coffee hanging out with a dog or two to protect me from mountain lions and bears.
