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40F Seeking Catholic + Homesteading Husband in VA, NC, TN, KY, KS

 
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Hello! I am a 40 year old woman currently living in South Florida. While I have always wanted a “farm” life, my former husband of 12 years was not to be pulled away from the suburbs and Uber eats. Annulment in process, I realized I want homesteading to be my life, and to be with a man who can get his hands dirty and do “hard work”. For me, being close to the earth, living in nature’s rhythms, and animal husbandry is being closer to God’s design for Creation.  

My lifelong desire is to put down permanent roots, be close to nature, with a husband I respect, trust, and admire to build a multi-generational legacy of family with our land to expand on (25+ acres). To follow the seasonal cycles, have a purpose beyond consumption, be appreciated for my womanly gifts, and connected to something greater than myself: God and His design for us!  

Long term goals:

- Grow & preserve the families’ food (sell excess)
- Solar roof tiles (harvest and preserve our energy)
- goats for raw milk
- horses for farm and trail riding (I have two)
- a fortified 2A bunker for emergencies
- chickens
- stone fruit orchards
- spring, river, and well on property
- near total self sufficient family
- interconnected with other homesteading families
- leave corporate dependence behind
- Catholic Family life, build a family chapel

So, I’m on here seeking a like-minded man. If your goals and values align with mine, I’d love to hear from you! Whether it’s joining you on a property you already own or we take up the mantle together: I’m here for the journey. I’m intelligent, a quick learner, a polymath, experienced outdoorswoman, gardener, equestrian, have vet skills, and I always love learning new things. I also love cooking and baking, and can easily learn any other kitchen skills.

My personality is quiet but playful and upbeat interpersonally. While I’m an introvert, and prefer close company, I’m socially adaptable. I’m an optimistic person and have a lot to share with the right man. I love deep, intentional discussions. While I have leadership qualities, I am seeking a man who wants to and is capable of being the family leader. Only looking for genuine marriage to a Catholic man who understands what marriage is: a permanent, sacred covenant. My former marriage was not valid as it was not sacramental or with a baptized Christian who valued marriage.

I do want children, and yes, I am capable (and ready) to start having kids asap. My ex was sterile and so we were never able to conceive 😭 Homeschooling only, already have the curriculums picked out 😉

Also, I do not engage in allopathic medicine unless it’s an actual emergency (trauma, etc). I have a functional outlook and am not in the “sick care system”. Use Crowd Health for my doctor bills and they also cover home midwifery care.

Politically, I am conservative (not RHINO, but genuine Constitutional conservative).

Physically, I am 5’8’’ and 160lbs, with blue eyes, auburn hair, fair skin, some freckles, and athletic body type. I used to be a professional horse rider, a track runner, shot putter, am very fit and outdoorsy!

Hobbies: hiking, trekking, fly fishing, skiing, scuba diving, animal husbandry (grew up with an animal rescue and lots of pets), experienced horsewoman & trainer, well traveled, and cultured.

I am open to talking to men aged 35 to 60 (as long as you are willing and able to have kids), preferably taller than me, fit and European descent. If you feel we share mutual goals and values, please message me! Virginia, North Carolina, Tennessee preferred, might also consider Kentucky, or Saint Mary’s Kansas (must be near either SSPX or FSSP Parish).  

Looking forward to hearing from you!! 💜🇺🇸✝️
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I sent you a new to this idk you got it I don't see it in sent I'm in fl moving back to nc we have so many in common been single 7 years by choice waiting for God to put the right Partner in my path I haven't ever did anything like this some reason I was drown to tonight timrileytrucking@gmail.com
 
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Hi I’m Dallas I’m 38 6 foot 1 175 lbs hazel eyes short dark hair athletic body type I love the outdoors fishing hunting hiking anything with nature I love I’ve hiked the Appalachian trail 3 times about to do it again this coming up year I would love to have a partner join me on this journey in that time we could get to know a lot about each other I left society about 5 years ago I’ve been living in the mountains and the deep woods literally living off the land I am a Christian man I would love to get to know more about you email me at tlee27407@gmail.com are text at 3046270877 sincerely Dallas ps your very beautiful
 
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I think a little grammar and punctuation would help you guys get responses.  Just my opinion.
 
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Dear whitney,
I was sold as soon as you mentioned "bunker","homeschool", and "multi-generational legacy on our land".
I moved to my homestead (55 acres) in middle TN about 9 months ago, so i am just at the beginning stages, but as of right now I am able to work it full time. I have a post and some quick videos up on youtube, if you would like to see where i live.
I hope to hear back from you.
Andrew
 
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