Ok this is what I have come up with, for my situation and location.
If you see problems with it, PLEASE, let me know, (nicely).
Tactical Wood Gas, Big Dragon Gasifier Kit $1000
(I have 80 acres, 7 miles from a small town, with lots of trees).
Homebuilt LP generator using a small engine and 24v alternator. $70
Between myself and family we have more small engines than we know what to do with.
Trojan L16E-AC 6v 370Ah batteries $207 each
4 (in series) = 24v, 370ah= 8.8kw
2 of the above in parallel = 24v, 740ah = 17.7kw
Using only top 20% = 3.5kw available per Day
Samlex SA 2000W 24V Pure Sine Wave Inverter $780
(Later if I can afford it, an Outback and keep this for backup)
Hot water heater is already using LP
House heat is wood.
Stove is electric, but the guy who sells the Gasifier also sells a 2 burner stove.
Wife is from Colombia, SA and think that clothes dryers are a silly luxury.
Can live without AC by spending summer time in the basement.
Water is from spring/cistern so the pump uses very little power.
Gasifier 1000
24v Alternator 70
Batteries 1656
Inverter 780
Total 3506