I'm Lila and a little older at 42. I understand what you are looking for and feel the same. I've recently taken a course in permaculture design and received certification. Now I want to put it to use but desire a true 100% partner to get started. I have family in Indiana and would like to stay in the general area I currently reside. I've also got the means to invest in land, equipment, housing, etc. But want a partner to live life out with. I would like to be a completely self-sustained farm with forest land. I'm just beginning this journey but I've educated myself and practiced gardening organic heirloom seed for over 20yrs now and I'm ready to take the plunge and DO it!