This thread has given me so much to think about! Thank you!
I'm still pretty new here, long-time lurker, but I have fibromyalgia and a bunch of other health nastiness that has me disabled. We're expanding the garden this year (again), which means many more seeds started, and we have ducks, which means I have to take care of them every day, and don't get me started on how much work teens are. ;)
My big job right now (other than trying a modified version of the Autoimmune Protocol for Lent to see if I really am allergic to more tree nuts than the ones I already know about, etc.) is working on the negative messaging in my head. Tonight, for example. I tried a new recipe (sweet potato gnocchi), and it was a disaster. So, dinner wasn't ready on time or, in the end, at all, so everyone has had to just grab what leftovers they could. I couldn't clear out the area of the duck pen I wanted to, but I got some of it. I couldn't get to both grocery stores in the plans for today, but I made it to one and got the needed bread flour. Okay is good enough. Some is good enough. Anything at all on my bad pain days is good enough. At least, this is what I tell myself every day now.