Hi Eric, I don’t know if you’ve found any solutions yet as this seems to be an older thread. Obviously my heart goes out to you and all those who suffer with sleep issues. I do as well but not to the extremes I’ve read here.
I suffered from chronic fatigue for 13 years before finally getting the right help so I’ve been on a significant health journey as well. Over that time I’ve learned a lot and come across a lot of different things.
I will briefly offer a few things that I’m not sure I saw in any other posts...
GHB, aka the date rape drug. Illegal in the US of course, but in some European countries I believe it is prescribed. I heard an interview with a dr one time that it’s the best sleep medicine that actually works and doesn’t have side effects when used properly.
Ayahuasca. Reset the brain. The best interviews I found on this were on Bulletproof Radio, know known as the Human Upgrade.
Physical therapy that specifically targets neurological disfunction. I don’t know how it works but I’ve been to one where all you do is lie down on the table, they do their thing and sometimes it leaves you so relaxed you fall asleep. I’ve heard many people with PTSD have benefited from these techniques. The place I went to was in Tucson AZ. Halili PT.
Lastly, a functional medicine dr. Daniel Aman may have been mentioned. He does a lot of brain work. But also a dr who will look at allergy testing. Sounds weird right? I ended up being allergic to corn, tapioca, celery, watermelon, apples and a whole host of other things. Not saying this is your problem, but it could be one more hidden thing your body has to deal with that adds stress and inflammation.
I have more, but I’ll leave it at that for now. If any of this intrigues you and you want to know more let me know. I can do more homework and go into more specifics later.
Best of luck.