Hi Benjamin, I am a musician and have tried everything for sound abatement. Based on my experience, the gold standard is mechanical isolation of the wall surfaces. Yes, more mass in the wall is good but isolation is even better. The problem is that you have a wooden medium on the inside connected to large, flat surfaces on the outside that collect and transmit sound vibrations very effectively. In fact this is exactly how a piano soundboard works. If you can isolate one or both of those wall surfaces from the wood studs inside the wall, that will stop nearly all of the transfer of vibrations from one surface to the other.
If time, space, and money are not issues you can just build two parallel wall systems - two sets of studs running parallel to each other with wallboard hung on the outside of each set of studs. But you can get nearly the same benefit without all of that work by using a product called resilient channel to hang the wallboard. This is a metal strip that is folded over so you can screw one side to the studs, then screw the wallboard to the resilient channel. This way the wallboard is isolated from the studs by a 12mm/0.5 inch gap. That is enough to stop nearly all of the transfer of vibration from stud to surface.
I just looked up resilient channel and found a bunch of pages from soundproofing companies claiming that resilient channel does not work. Well of course they would say that, they want you to buy their consulting services and proprietary toxic gick. I have built wall systems with resilient channel and it works great. In fact I believe it was invented specifically to provide sound isolation at low cost. I have been told it is used in hotels for this purpose.
Here is an example (no connection to the company, just the first search result):
https://www.buysuperstud.com/products/clips-and-accessories/resilient-channel
The stuff I used was similar to the RC1 or RC-SUPER from that site.
Home improvement stores do not carry it but it is a standard item at specialty drywall/plaster vendors.
Of course this is geared towards a conventional modern gypsum board wall, but if your friend wanted to try to get the same benefit using more natural materials she might try adapting the concept to creating a lath matrix that is similarly isolated from the studs and plastering the lath with the medium of her choice. I might worry slightly about the finished wall flexing and cracking though (the resilient channel gives just a tiny bit - not an issue with solid wallboard). Or wood paneling would also work although the screws would have to be dealt with visually (you cannot use nails with resilient channel). Maybe use tongue and groove boards.
Bear in mind that there may also be significant vibrations, especially in the low frequencies, coming through the floor if the two sides rest on the same joists or subfloor. Treating the wall will not help with that. Perhaps a covert operation to disconnect the neighbors subwoofer is the best strategy.
-Aaron