Amanda Detko

Is there any communities or people with land looking to start a small community in North Idaho Montana?
I'm a solo mom of two kids I'm extremely independent but since I am alone and low income it's hard for me to establish anything without another person and I'll be the first to admit that it is incredibly hard raising kids entirely by your self and what's scary is this society is intentionally collapsing to force us into these smart cities and I fear for my kids future or a lack of one because of all the crazy s*** that's going on yeah and I'm willing to take a chance with another family that's looking for the same thing. And that's community working together but living our own separate lives but working. Together to be self-reliant,no judgement as long as we're doing our best to be good people and support each other that's all I want I don't want to live in a community that's ultra religious or in a community that tells me what I can and cannot do and I don't want to live in a community that thinks that it's acceptable to share your significant others. I just want to find a family community

I'm not sure why you wrote me that long paragraph defending yourself on my post. What you said was partially correct but I reached out to you multiple times and each time they were ignored. You gave me a time frame that I could come to the property and once that other girl showed up that went out the window and you wanted to push it off longer because this girl just arrived on the property I'm not asking for an explanation at all but the fact is you did offer me a spot at the other property and I said I was going to look at other options because I didn't want to live someplace by myself building up on someone else's property alone but I would keep that in the back of my head and then when I asked you about it again over and over again it was ignored that's the facts this was about two two and a half years ago

Opal-Lia Palmer wrote:I didn't ignore you, not intentionally Amanda, I am so sorry if it came off that way. Many emails and busy life happened I am sorry if you feel that way. My happenings of  the events, was 1 bad internet connection attempt at a video chat which switched to a nice conversation on the phone. I had been speaking to the other Mom with 3 kids for more than 6 months at that time, and she had just moved in. They were in Trauma and no emotional space for new people, I was being respectful of all involved. I have every right to make the proper choice for the good of the community. You said you had a short time frame like 2 weeks or so. I offered the other property as a temporary so we could continue to get to know each other, all 3 families with kids. You refused, wanted to look at other options. I barely knew you and I have to be protective of the communities needs over 1 family.  That was your choice. I never saw another email from you and you had my phone number as well. Please don't make me look bad, you did not say the full story.

Hey Amanda, we are neighbors. I live about an hour north of you near Sandpoint. My daughters best friend lives in Post Falls. Check out my post about starting a community here on the land.15 private beautiful acres. I have a large vision and not all of it is typed there and a lot has changed but check out my profile bio for info as well.And YES! what is it with creepy older men!? I am a widow, now an only parent to my kids and I get what you mean, its gross. Would love to see if we are a good fit for a community family. Email or purple message me here. Opal.althoff@gmail.com
Look forward to hearing from you
Opal

Hey opal if you don't remember a couple years ago we talked on the phone and the plan was for me and my kids to come to your property but at the same time you allowed another single mom and her kids come and then when it was time for me you told me that you wanted to just see how things go with that first family. But then offered me to stay on another piece of property you had and when I asked if I can take you up on that offer you ignored me.

Hey Amanda, we are neighbors. I live about an hour north of you near Sandpoint. My daughters best friend lives in Post Falls. Check out my post about starting a community here on the land.15 private beautiful acres. I have a large vision and not all of it is typed there and a lot has changed but check out my profile bio for info as well.And YES! what is it with creepy older men!? I am a widow, now an only parent to my kids and I get what you mean, its gross. Would love to see if we are a good fit for a community family. Email or purple message me here. Opal.althoff@gmail.com
Look forward to hearing from you
Opal

Hey opal if you don't remember a couple years ago we talked on the phone and the plan was for me and my kids to come to your property but at the same time you allowed another single mom and her kids come and then when it was time for me you told me that you wanted to just see how things go with that first family. But then offered me to stay on another piece of property you had and when I asked if I can take you up on that offer you ignored me.

I'm inboxing you

Can you inbox me and tell me where? I've lived up and down i5 and decided to go back to Idaho and I miss Oregon:(

I'm not looking for an older guy! And I don't need to be taken care of! I am a young middle-aged solo mom with two awesome kids. I've given up on owning my own property due to the fact that it's crazy expensive and I'm not sure if when shtf owning anything will actually mean it's yours. More than anything I just want to learn with like my ended individuals that want to learn how to live off the land in any environment,to be open to moving with the seasons if need be. It's hard living in a world with no support system.
In the area that we're living in North Idaho my kids are involved in archery rifle I got them in wilderness schools boyscouts foraging walks, it has a lot to offer for learning opportunities I like to stay but I'm open to moving anywhere else on the west coast to find my tribe if it's safe. But the people here are not friendly for the most part they're only looking to get ahead such as older men looking for a younger women with kids thinking women are desperate enough to settle with old men just for security for what's to come and that's not me!
If you're a legitimate family and interested My email is amandacambe90@gmail.com

I have been searching on wwoof and workaway Montana Idaho Washington and Oregon and it is so hard to find people not strict on preference. I just moved back down to Oregon from north Idaho since the snow want melted in Montana by the time I was packed and ready .I'm trying to figure out where in Montana I want to move my two kids and I? Are there any welcoming peeps open to renting out a RV spot on homestead or farm type deal?

Or looking to throw on property.
I'm on wwoof and workaway no one seems to be very open to kids or My ability to raise kids on my own and work on the homestead and work to pay my spot rent if required..
My only goal for my kids future and my own is to live naturally and learn the skills to survive without society. I'm a bit of a nomad and moved quite a bit around Oregon Washington and north Idaho

I'm a single mother of two kids originally from Ohio moved to west coast 7 years ago moving around ALOT trying to find my place ended up buying a small trailer and been working ultimately trying to find property of my own or to live on to learn to be self reliant away from society. Anyone have leads please let me know.